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Replies: 249So, if you knew someone who was going a little too far in revealing things that are private to them-you would warn them and advise them and not take advantage of them to the point it becomes an obsession for the other chatter? Or would you abuse their trust and take full advantage knowing the harm you are doing to the other chatter?
You’ve only given me 2 options. I would do neither of them. But it also depends on who the “someone” is.
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Sophia.
You’ve only given me 2 options. I would do neither of them. But it also depends on who the “someone” is.
Sowwy mooosey, messing up ur post lol. me typing has gone invisible.
I would what ?
Firstly, what is private / personal information is very subjective. For some people an ASL is far too personal, whereas for others it would be their opening chat line. Some people are only to happy to discuss their personal information, others are not so. Each chat dynamic between 2 people has its own unique dynamic.
It isn’t for me to say or decide what is too personal for others to chat about, likewise, it isn’t for others to decide what I consider too personal to chat about.
sorry to piggyback your thread moooose,its just that ive heard geek has put her pic on,cant find it tho?
Personal choice isn’t it? whether you divulge or not, think problems arise when others have to harp on about it, the on and on and on stuff, if they don’t like what others say ignore it. It really is that simple, I’ve divulged stuff in F3, been mocked called a liar, generally bullied for some, but….. they don’t know me, I get told what ive done who I am etc, but I still know I’m me and what I divulge is true, and its why I have such strong opinions on some topics, I was called “walking miracle” dunno why.. ive lived, ive survived, ive coped. worth laughing at and ripping apart? calling names? so be it, I know the truth. just makes those that do it look idiots.
walk a mile in someones shoes before you assume or judge, but I know there are some right sad sods on here that just cannot accept what some have encountered in life.
Yes I do think some people divulge too much. Unless you have met the person you are chatting too, how can you trust them?
Also, some people are so gullible it’s beyond belief. People get taken in by blatent lies and do the stupidest things. I wont say any more so as not to embarrass who did what but I was staggered.
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This reply was modified 7 years, 9 months ago by Jane.
If it’s gonna bother you if divulged info is used “against” you then don’t divulge it..if it doesn’t bother you then it doesn’t matter.
I fully agree with Pete here……. Treat your personal life as a “need to know” basis. Certain vile/attention seeking chatters will twist the truth to suit them for maximum humiliation to the innocent chatter.
Even in private chat you may think you are chatting with a particular chatter but it could be someone else.
Be careful out there peeps
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What makes me laugh is how gossip when thrown at you is gospel but when you throw it back at the abuser its total nonsense Apparently I’m so good I’ve had sex with people I haven’t even met….beat that!!
apparently im that good at sex,even the next door neighbours have a smoke when ive finished.
What makes me laugh is how gossip when thrown at you is gospel but when you throw it back at the abuser its total nonsense Apparently I’m so good I’ve had sex with people I haven’t even met….beat that!!
apparently im that good at sex,even the next door neighbours have a smoke when ive finished.
Nah they’re just setting fire to their house so they don’t have to hear you having sex again
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