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JenJen i agree with Momentry, go in the evenings but not for long, the dad could have ignored his daughter but put her feelings first so yaeh go with a bottle of wine etc.
Mrs. T, christ that is one hell of a dilemma, if it was me i’d get the neighbour alone and call her on it, tell her her husband has been quizzing you about her duities that your uncomfortable and this is not why you helped her in the first place. If she contuines to have the affair tell her your friendship is over, you will not be fired for this as it would be unfair dismissal and if it when that far the affair would be exposed to everone. Now you say this happened years ago, so is it still happening or what was the result?
Should I send panda a pm or wait for her to send me one..?
@terry wrote:
Should I send panda a pm or wait for her to send me one..?
Wait for her to send you one, play hard to get and maintain that air of mystery :wink:
@irish_lucy wrote:
JenJen i agree with Momentry, go in the evenings but not for long, the dad could have ignored his daughter but put her feelings first so yaeh go with a bottle of wine etc.
Mrs. T, christ that is one hell of a dilemma, if it was me i’d get the neighbour alone and call her on it, tell her her husband has been quizzing you about her duities that your uncomfortable and this is not why you helped her in the first place. If she contuines to have the affair tell her your friendship is over, you will not be fired for this as it would be unfair dismissal and if it when that far the affair would be exposed to everone. Now you say this happened years ago, so is it still happening or what was the result?
Thank you for asking Lucy… actually there is a sad ending to the story. I took the cowards way out as I was offered an opportunity in life that I accepted and left the job…. I didnt rock the boat, however shortly after I left my friends marriage broke up, my ex boss accepted a promotion and moved to Coventry with his wife,,, and very sadly my friend just recently died of leukaemia. It was all such a mess and as you can imagine our friendship was never the same after…. which I know she regretted.
@mrs_teapot wrote:
@irish_lucy wrote:
JenJen i agree with Momentry, go in the evenings but not for long, the dad could have ignored his daughter but put her feelings first so yaeh go with a bottle of wine etc.
Mrs. T, christ that is one hell of a dilemma, if it was me i’d get the neighbour alone and call her on it, tell her her husband has been quizzing you about her duities that your uncomfortable and this is not why you helped her in the first place. If she contuines to have the affair tell her your friendship is over, you will not be fired for this as it would be unfair dismissal and if it when that far the affair would be exposed to everone. Now you say this happened years ago, so is it still happening or what was the result?
Thank you for asking Lucy… actually there is a sad ending to the story. I took the cowards way out as I was offered an opportunity in life that I accepted and left the job…. I didnt rock the boat, however shortly after I left my friends marriage broke up, my ex boss accepted a promotion and moved to Coventry with his wife,,, and very sadly my friend just recently died of leukaemia. It was all such a mess and as you can imagine our friendship was never the same after…. which I know she regretted.
Its easy to give advice even thought im crap at taking my own, behind a screen i can say this is what i would do but in the suituation i most probably would have done the same (by not rocking the boat), I dont think your a coward for not saying anything, you tried to be a friend and stayed out of it, they were both adults and knew the consequences, its shame it ended that way, but clearly wasnt your fault xx
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