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yes i was a mistake.
my mam was 16 my dad 17 and all loved up :roll:
they were ‘made’ to get married but lasted 27 years so not to bad.
i wasnt bothered that i was mistake as i have always felt loved, however it was pretty clear throughout my childhood that my mam was way to young when she had me.It’s gettin all off topic eh theres a suprise :lol:
Sod it though, the powers that be decided to act and not before time i’d say, some got banned and maybe that wasnt right in some cases, and maybe it was in others, but that’s subjective i guess and down to the moderators or maybe just Martin who knows, (and i disagree with the rule that says we cant criticise those decisions.)
You should be, within the rules, be able to post what you want or withold what you want. The majority of people on here I think have the decency not to mock or belittle where it’s not needed. Everyone is entitled to an opinion, you’re not entitled to voice that opinion neccesarily though, nor to deliberately try and hurt those most vunerable cause those are the actions of a bully.
I’m not innocent, but sometimes it wasnt really me speaking, for reasons i wasnt comfortable with sharing, for the same reason cath wasnt, cause there were people who’d use that and try and belittle.
What you talkin bout Willis? :?
I was wondering same Dawny
i wasnt a mistake, but i was fourth time lucky. after having 3 boys the mid wife said to me dad,” it’s a girl” to which he replied ” are ye sure?”
@sharongooner wrote:
Dont post something which you are not comfortable with.
But dont be made to feel you shouldnt post stuff either, us that matter and care know who we all are x
I hear what your saying Sharon, and yes we should be able to post things about ourselves if we want too, but personally I,d question the wisdom in posting such highly personal info about yourselves on a public message board.
You have to remember that anyone in the world can log onto these boards and read all this stuff. It was very personal stuff. Just a suggestion, if you really want to share such personal info with people you chat to on-line I,d do it in pm or msn. Again, it,s just a suggestion.
tut batty, you should know me by now… when was I ever sensible! :lol:
(good advice though) :wink:
It’s an interesting point that toybulldog raises. I’ve been on both sides of this. My first family were twins – one boy & one girl – and I played no part at all in planning their conception. My then wife simply decided that she wanted a family and nature took its course.
My second family – a daughter now aged 10 – was by contrast carefully thought about beforehand and her conception was “planned” (i.e. agreed to by both of us in advance).
Whilst I am close to all three of my children, I guess I am closer to my youngest than I am to my twins (who are now aged 30). Mind you this is probably unfair, as I am considerably older and wiser now that I was when they were born so maybe time has mellowed me somewhat.
However, the bottom line is that you never stop loving your children no matter what the circumstances were of their conception.
I’ve been typically stitched up by my lovely eldest daughter. She has just resigned from a job she had aboard a luxury yacht (Russian billionairre type). Unfortunately the boat is dry docked in Marseilles right now. Guess who volunteered to drive down there next weekend and pick her up???
Having got me on the hook, she then told me that she has “simply loads” of clothes and stuff to bring back. So my car will be packed to the roof with her stuff. THEN she said that she had never been to Switzerland. “Any chance we could go back via Switzerland Daddy” says she ever so sweetly.
I don’t know …. the things you do for your children eh???
I wasn’t a mistake as such …
But my Ma didn’t want another child …. I was her 10th in total … 5th that she had with my Da.
Of the five they had together four were sons – and of the four – three died as infants due to genetic Muscular Dystrophy. Ma didn’t wanna face more heartache and Da was catholic – he won out with the contraceptive arguements!
Never for once tho did I doubt that they loved me and I think its the only arguement I actually recall my Ma admitting that my Da was right :D
@boojangle wrote:
I wasn’t a mistake as such …
But my Ma didn’t want another child …. I was her 10th in total … 5th that she had with my Da.
Of the five they had together four were sons – and of the four – three died as infants due to genetic Muscular Dystrophy. Ma didn’t wanna face more heartache and Da was catholic – he won out with the contraceptive arguements!
Never for once tho did I doubt that they loved me and I think its the only arguement I actually recall my Ma admitting that my Da was right :D
am fillin up here . where’s the kleenex
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