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as in practise what you preach ?
I think you missed the point but whatever…
Fact – both Linda and Jamie brought up Mizzy for absolutely no reason other than to be nasty and berate her.
Fact – This is a really heartfelt thread started by Nem and should be about her and her friends offering her support.
Fact – Moosey you will defend those that you are friends with even though in this instance they are both in the wrong for detracting from the actual point of this thread by venting for their own personal reasons because you are a kind and loyal person.
No I did not miss the point.
Now back to Nems – I am sure you will be ok, you have a very wise head and a good heart.
Please lets not make any more comments on this thread that take us further away from what the thread was started for.
Hugs to you Nem.
Instead of insulting other chatters lets now focus on being there for a chatter that we all like.
Love to you nems
I think Nem, who i’ve always liked, was very brave to post about her depression. I said as much. I also noted that others will big themselves up, Jamie didn’t, she pointed out that maybe people should act as they speak,
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I totally agree Dodger, but I am allowed to speak. yes it is about Nem ! however, some people use it as a thread to big themselves up and make out they are perfect. Maybe Mizzy shouldnt have been broughtup and I see your point, but she was brought up with the intention of pointing out that ” don’t be so understanding and mindful of everyone unless you back it up ” as in… dont be 2 faced while acting perfect.
Sorry Nem and Dodge, whoever you are…You done good girl…. I’m employing a knitter to make some winter knickers for that remote island you are going to !!! you’ll thank me I promise !!!
Ok i know now x
I totally agree Dodger, but I am allowed to speak. yes it is about Nem ! however, some people use it as a thread to big themselves up and make out they are perfect. Maybe Mizzy shouldnt have been broughtup and I see your point, but she was brought up with the intention of pointing out that ” don’t be so understanding and mindful of everyone unless you back it up ” as in… dont be 2 faced while acting perfect.
Sorry Nem and Dodge, whoever you are…You done good girl…. I’m employing a knitter to make some winter knickers for that remote island you are going to !!! you’ll thank me I promise !!!
Dont be 2 faced while acting perfect? sorry who was two faced whilst acting perfect?
Totally lost now.
Are you saying Nem has been two faced and acting perfect?
Nem from what I have seen has never been two faced or ever tried to act like she was perfect shes always appeared to be very honest.
Please clarify who has been two faced and acted perfect?
Jamief and I worked the issue out about another mentioned. Truth be known I was very hurt and extremely stressed over situation. Made me depressed. Jamief used as example so to speak. It was not to take away from nemesis.
Now stop stirring..please..Jamief and I worked the issue out about another mentioned. Truth be known I was very hurt and extremely stressed over situation. Made me depressed. Jamief used as example so to speak. It was not to take away from nemesis.
Now stop stirring..please..I think you should seriously consider why you keep bringing Mizzy up in your comments on threads that have absolutely nothing to do with her.
Have you considered counselling?
Nem has been very open about her seeking help from professionals.
I have noticed as have many have, that you do bring up this Mizzy character very often.
I think you need to address your issues and get some closure.
You bring her up such a lot.
I think if you seeked help you could move on and have a happier life.
It is odd and rather obsessional.
I would give the same advice to Jamie as she has also involved Mizzy into this thread when it was really supposed to be all about Nem.
You both need to stop focusing on Mizzy and move on with your lives.
I am sure you are both nice people and want to be there for Nem. But it appears that you both also need to seek closure and put the past behind you.
Focus on Nem and not upon yourselves.
Being so selfish is not a good thing. Its not about you both, its about Nem.
Think about her right now, she needs your support.
Forget Mizzy. You really both need to get over her and move on.
Nem needs you right now.
Who is this person who comes in every once in a blue moon hides in the dark and preaches advice..? Don’t tell me my needs, thank you. I am willing and capable to make big decisions on my own.?
So now again third time said PLEASE..don’t you include me. Thank you again.
Nem, I feel for you, you a lovely person, it’s hard to be depressed or have it, I’ve had my fair share. If you need me for talking or just listening just find me. I will always be there , I can listen with the best, not saying I have answers but I do believe in caring for all, even those who might not deserve it, they might have their own issues to deal with. Love to all cause life is short, it would be sad to be miserable the whole time, always your friend, honestly sassey
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