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27 November, 2018 at 10:26 pm #1110053
Folk like mizzy you mean Linda?So depressed they kick against the world and its sister and drinks like a fish.Trying anything to fill there head with anything other than what there dealing with.
As far as Mizzy..I so so so tried. She frustrate me as she refused those baby steps. You have to really want help to get better. My opinion she not want it, rejected it..laughed at it. I do hope she well after the numerous things she did to drag me down with her. But sadly she made me breach a boundary. I lost it. She too good for me. I could not get handle and grip on it. She attacked my weakness. Held up stronger than me. I realized she made me feel weak, low..dragged me down to her level..and that is when I had to climb back up. Remember whom I am. What I do..and why in first place..will never ever let some one take punches at me again when I am not looking..
Give it a rest ffs.
I hope you feel better soon Nems.
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27 November, 2018 at 11:04 pm #1110054for clarification… Liked Jamie’s post.
27 November, 2018 at 11:41 pm #1110056Depression is a hell of a thing to struggle with.
I was very close to someone who suffered from it very severely throughout her life, and died early because of it.
Rudeboy gives a relevant analysis of depression rooted in the problems we all face, but ‘clinical’ depression seems to go deeper; it may be chemical in nature/ Or childhood traumas, which make you ill-equipped to deal with a rather nasty world??
Anxiety is another nasty.
Combine the two and you have a problem which cbt can’t help
Takes a long time to free yourself, so you need determination.
“Pick yourself, up, dust yourself down, start all over again”
28 November, 2018 at 12:23 am #1110058Good post scep, and the many others..
However, this “artful Dodger” in posting screwed up what I said.. I was the one who said tried tried tried so hard so with Mizzy..
Please give it a rest popping in to stir up kettles..I understand through a few reliable sources..this may be you..the famous “Alfie”. Yes have done my homework too!
P.s. you and her never ever give it a rest. Or that Morg too! You come in with many fony numbers still. You all give it a rest..give me a break move on….
28 November, 2018 at 12:28 am #1110059Nemesis..
I have spoken with Cosy. As he is able to read things.. still unable to post in this area..
He asked me..no I go further..made sure I do his request from him. “He wishes you well..from his heart!”
28 November, 2018 at 1:11 am #1110061However, this “artful Dodger” in posting screwed up what I said.. I was the one who said tried tried tried so hard so with Mizzy..
This thread is about Nems and her struggles. Do not turn it into yet another thread where you make your pathetic little digs at other chatters and use it as a platform for your nastiness.
Nems has been honest open and shared her feelings. There was absolutely no need for you or Jamie to bring up Mizzy at all.
Lets just concentrate on Nems and giving her the support she needs without hijacking this thread yet again to vent your ugly grievances with other chatters.
What is next? You bringing up hugs?
It must have taken a lot of courage for Nems to have brought this up and talked about her issues. Please have more respect and not make it about yourselves and your petty vendettas.
Sorry Nems that others have tried to belittle what was a really sincere thread created by you. Please try to take the good points of what they have said and ignore their efforts to distract readers from the points you have so eloquently made.
On their behalves I apologise. Someone really should.
Take care of you.
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28 November, 2018 at 1:21 am #1110062I don’t think Jamie tried to hi jack the thread, just point out some home truths to Linda,in fact, I think if anyone has empathy with Nem, its Jamie, what she says is from personal experience, and from a point of compassion. To truly feel empathy and compassion one needs to have experienced the feelings of others.
28 November, 2018 at 1:27 am #1110063I don’t think Jamie tried to hi jack the thread, just point out some home truths to Linda,in fact, I think if anyone has empathy with Nem, its Jamie, what she says is from personal experience, and from a point of compassion. To truly feel empathy and compassion one needs to have experienced the feelings of others.
No need for her to bring up Mizzy.
Seems she’s just using it as an excuse to vent her opinions out of spite.
This thread is NOT about jamie and its NOT about Mizzy, its about Nem.
Shame they cannot keep it at that.
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28 November, 2018 at 1:34 am #1110065I think you missed the point but whatever…
28 November, 2018 at 1:35 am #1110066Folk like mizzy you mean Linda?So depressed they kick against the world and its sister and drinks like a fish.Trying anything to fill there head with anything other than what there dealing with.
this was sarcasm ?
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