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Oops I quoted in the wrong place thanks iPhone lol!
Forget that ^^^ I have put the laptop on and corrected it lol
(Should have stayed blonde)
@flame wrote:
Blossom unless u have walked in the shoes of any woman or man that as been verbally and mentaly abussed then u cant honestly say it dont happen
i spent 11 years in a relationship were i was belittled and put down all the time ,told wot i can or cant do,told wot friends i could have ,how much money i could spend on shopping every inch of my life was monitored, i wasnt me any more but a shell just plodding on
its only wen i left ,that i saw wot i was living in
i`ll never be the person i was ,unlike melody who as managed to keep strong, im to broken and even after 10 years i have bad days were i still feel my ex husband was right,i am useless ,ugly and worthless , i struggle to trusting people now and push them awayFlame hun it’s never too late to get some counselling from a support group x
that’s quite right melody, it was over a year ago now when i left my relationship and the police did offer to help me find a councellor an offer i wish i took up at the time, only recently did i decide to give it a go ive only had a cple of sessions but its did me good who talks things thru with a person who isnt emotionally involved.
its certainy gotton me thinking about things and properly one of the reasons i started this thread but tinks i see ur point about it turning into the thread from hell. xx
@flame wrote:
Blossom unless u have walked in the shoes of any woman or man that as been verbally and mentaly abussed then u cant honestly say it dont happen
i spent 11 years in a relationship were i was belittled and put down all the time ,told wot i can or cant do,told wot friends i could have ,how much money i could spend on shopping every inch of my life was monitored, i wasnt me any more but a shell just plodding on
its only wen i left ,that i saw wot i was living in
i`ll never be the person i was ,unlike melody who as managed to keep strong, im to broken and even after 10 years i have bad days were i still feel my ex husband was right,i am useless ,ugly and worthless , i struggle to trusting people now and push them awaywhen it comes to people who havent been in this kind of situation i really wouldn’t bother wasting your time trying to explain anything x
@flame wrote:
Blossom unless u have walked in the shoes of any woman or man that as been verbally and mentaly abussed then u cant honestly say it dont happen
i spent 11 years in a relationship were i was belittled and put down all the time ,told wot i can or cant do,told wot friends i could have ,how much money i could spend on shopping every inch of my life was monitored, i wasnt me any more but a shell just plodding on
its only wen i left ,that i saw wot i was living in
i`ll never be the person i was ,unlike melody who as managed to keep strong, im to broken and even after 10 years i have bad days were i still feel my ex husband was right,i am useless ,ugly and worthless , i struggle to trusting people now and push them away
ur ex husband was and still is a pr1ck and a bully, ur not ugly,useless or worthless, u av 4 wonderful kids and ur a great mum and yes u do push ppl away but i dont think u do it intentionally and as melody said its never too late to get help, it mite b a turning point for u, ur no longer a victim ur a survivor as is Melody, Eva, Masky, tinks, barbie and anyone else that has been through this, hold ur head up high and be proud of how far u all av come!! xxxxthis was one of the last things my ex said to me.
“your a cùnt and you push people away, your going to die alone”.
Yeah it hurt but what puts a smile on my face now is the fact he’s nout more than an EX and I don’t have to put up with his crap anymore, talking down to me etc etc :D
@irish_lucy wrote:
this was one of the last things my ex said to me.
“your a cùnt and you push people away, your going to die alone”.
Yeah it hurt but what puts a smile on my face now is the fact he’s nout more than an EX and I don’t have to put up with his crap anymore, talking down to me etc etc :D
he sounds like a rite tosser luce and ur better off without him! hold u head high miss irish! ;) xxx
i know i’ve said it b4 but i really would thank u all for taking the time to write down yr thoughts n opinions n especially stories. There’s been times when u know other ple go thru similar stuff to urself but it really does help reading this, not that uv gone thru it of course but the fact you have gone thru it and came thru other side.
So in conclusion Tinks, Lucy L, Dubbs, Melody, Barbie, Masky, Dani Jen n Cherrie and anyone else who have contributed your all good ple with good hearts xxxxxx love to u all
and Blossom errrmmm Merry xmas :P
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