Cremation or Burial?

@tinks wrote:

I don’t know what I would want……………what about those that you love? Would you want them poured into a nice plastic urn or would you like somewhere where you could go, sit and reflect?

You can have a small plot for the burial of the ashes, that way you still have somewhere you can go, sit and reflect. Of course you can still go to the place where the ashes were scattered too.

I haven’t been back to Wales since my mother died. I was the only one who tended my grandparents’ grave (my grandmother was buried as she died before cremation became more “popular”, my grandfather was cremated and his ashes interred in the same plot). I daresay it has now become overgrown with weeds despite the membrane and copious amounts of gravel that I put down. That to me is far sadder than not having somewhere to go, sit and reflect.

@thin ice wrote:

was a cold cold day the day of my fathers funeral
when we was in the crem it snowed on to a frozen car park
my wheels were spinning like mad and couldnt get off the car park
i had no other choice
so i tipped the old fellas ashes under me back wheels
worked a treat

the only usefull thing the miserable old git ever done for me :P

There is a flaw in your joke in that you don’t get the ashes on the day of the funeral :wink:

@thin ice wrote:

@melody wrote:

@thin ice wrote:

was a cold cold day the day of my fathers funeral
when we was in the crem it snowed on to a frozen car park
my wheels were spinning like mad and couldnt get off the car park
i had no other choice
so i tipped the old fellas ashes under me back wheels
worked a treat

the only usefull thing the miserable old git ever done for me :P

There is a flaw in your joke in that you don’t get the ashes on the day of the funeral :wink:

and a joke is all it was with not a tiny bit of truth in the story :D :D :D

Thanks for clarifying that – I might have gone to my grave thinking you were cold hearted and callous :lol: :roll: :wink: ***add sarcastic emoticon here***

erm … neither til I am dead!!! :D

@best man wrote:

Hot Chocolate attempt at a joke ive ever heard thin,i know the punchline,its no wonder why they call you by your nickname >>>> over the road.

ive heard you have a new one

limp d ick