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@kent f OBE wrote:
I will never understand why some people abuse in chat rooms.
The majority of us do not know anyone well at all..and the few that manage to find close friendships…well they wouldn’t abuse their friends anyway.
So why? What is lacking in their lives if anything? Is it a psycological thing? Or just a game? Do they really feel good after abusing? Even normal things chatters do get turned into reasons for abuse…complete madness!
Oh…..btw….my abuser last night said my pies were shit…………how rude!! :lol:
The abusers if you think about it are probably those you chat with everyday or who you consider to be “friends” or even “close friends.”
How else would they know things about you and your life?
Yes there are lots of people in the chat room but how many actually chat? Some just sit there and observe and others just leave because certain ppl take over and “police” the room.
Our dear troll “Coathanger” wasn’t a chatter but sat there watching the room and making notes for her stories.
Mr Anderson? Did he ever chat in the room? I doubt it. But he still wrote stories.
At least when I wrote my stories and abused ppl I did it under my own name rather than pretend to be someone else.
The funny thing is Kenty, you thought Mr Anderson’s abusive stories were good. Probably because you weren’t the subject of them.
At least those that were had the balls to laugh about it rather than complain.
So I guess the moral of this story is, if you are happy to laugh at the abuse others receive, then be prepared to accept it back.
Abuse comes in many forms and shapes.
There are some who criticise the unemployed, the people who are here all day (ummmhow do they know people are here all day?), others for the sexuality even if they make up the stories.
The sad thing is that abuse can not be defined as being this or that but is felt in many different ways by many people.
We have all seen the idiots who come in and proclaim such and such a female is a man. Simple throw away line but really a nasty form of abuse. We see the people who pop in and copy and paste a few lines several times then run only to return with a different name and do it again.
Then we see the people who want to get information about others to use against them.
A simple put down can often be far more hurtful for the person receiving it than the person doing it realises.
Engage brain before mouth.
@panda12 wrote:
The abusers if you think about it are probably those you chat with everyday or who you consider to be “friends” or even “close friends.”
How else would they know things about you and your life?
Yes there are lots of people in the chat room but how many actually chat? Some just sit there and observe and others just leave because certain ppl take over and “police” the room.
Our dear troll “Coathanger” wasn’t a chatter but sat there watching the room and making notes for her stories.
Mr Anderson? Did he ever chat in the room? I doubt it. But he still wrote stories.
At least when I wrote my stories and abused ppl I did it under my own name rather than pretend to be someone else.
The funny thing is Kenty, you thought Mr Anderson’s abusive stories were good. Probably because you weren’t the subject of them.
At least those that were had the balls to laugh about it rather than complain.
So I guess the moral of this story is, if you are happy to laugh at the abuse others receive, then be prepared to accept it back.
Intresting view on the stories Panda, I seen them as tounge in cheek as most of the peoeple meantioned in them posted good stuff under them
I also saw all the stories by Coathanger, Mr Anderson, Camel Blue and yours as tongue in cheek, and generally quite funny Panda…I was in Coathangers stories and yes I found them funny..as for Mr Anderson…well I know who the chatter is Panda, he does chat (used to anyway not anymore)…if me laughing at others abuse is abuse in itself well…what can I say…nothing…that is your opinion…
Laughing at stories is just like Jokes…some people find certain jokes funny, stories funny…others could possible find them disgusting….
The above mentioned storywriters do not know any of the characterrs in real life at all…even if they have met once or twice….you do not know that person very well…so the stories are effectively mainly just that….stories….we all know Joker does not live in a camper van…even Joker haters will admit to thatAs for my thread….I was genuinly interested in peoples views of chatroom abusers…we have our fair share in Jc3…but my abuse over the last 2 nights included my pie every time and actually made me laugh so much I thought I would mention it…and…last night when my abuser was doing his “job” again…….he mentioned this thread :lol:
So…a special smile for Mr Name Changing Abuser….oh…watch out for my weekend dish I bet you’re cooking the dishes too :wink: :lol:
Apparently Joker is on his way in a caravan thingy to shoot me! Now that IS what I would call abusive!! Well, good luck to him! :lol:
@anc wrote:
Apparently Joker is on his way in a caravan thingy to shoot me! Now that IS what I would call abusive!! Well, good luck to him! :lol:
He probably made a pie like mine as a peace offering :lol:
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A lot of the time i am sure people (myself included) put their foot in it unintentionally, when its done on purpose its a totally different thing and can be very hurtful for the person that it is aimed at. Its basically a form of bullying and those that do it are the ones that shout loudest if it is done to them.
Some seem to be able to do it all the time and no one says a word, others say hardly nothing and are jumped on immediately and made to feel bad. We all say all the time if you dont like someone just dont speak to them if you really feel you have good reason.
As Kenty said few of us know the anyone for real!!!
Abuse can be very subtle too….so much so that others reading it might not perceive it as abuse…. I agree the best thing is to just ignore it.
I have never abused anyone, I have however stood my corner on occasions. Truly though standing your corner really doesn’t work with abusers… they have a different agenda… truth and doing the right thing is not part of their psyche….. they are just interested in hurting….
Why? Well its a puzzle to me, best advice ignore them.
@mrs_teapot wrote:
best advice ignore them.
Or agree with them, it confuses the hell out of them and they don’t know what to say next :lol:
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