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    I didn’t say I Don’t give as good as i get back .

    You call greeting me in the room with kisses, after years of bullying on here ” burying the hatchet”? I certainly don’t !
    You obviously don’t know him – he can be nice one minute , and the next, start all over again.

    Anything else ? :roll:

    #483416

    oh i agree he wasn’t burring the hachet but thought i’d throw that remark in to see if its just Thin that gets such response’s or anyone.
    Thank you for playing but trolling is not my style, im just bored.

    And my point is valid – YOUR NOT BEEN BULLIED.

    I doubt Thin has control over you, or that you REALLY feel hurt as youve stated before He doesn’t know you. And as for having power over you – WTF? does he?
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^ all that is YOUR definition of bullying, so how are you been bullied?

    #483417

    @irish_lucy wrote:

    oh i agree he wasn’t burring the hachet but thought i’d throw that remark in to see if its just Thin that gets such response’s or anyone.
    Thank you for playing but trolling is not my style, im just bored.

    And my point is valid – YOUR NOT BEEN BULLIED.

    I doubt Thin has control over you, or that you REALLY feel hurt as youve stated before He doesn’t know you. And as for having power over you – WTF? does he?
    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^ all that is YOUR definition of bullying, so how are you been bullied?

    Where have i said he has power over me ? That was a definition of bullying, NOT mine. As you seem to be the expert on it for some reason … you should know there are varying degrees of bullying .

    Pleased you think of it as playing a game Lucy … i’m happy for you . You asked me questions , i duly replied . I have obviously not given you the answers you expected.

    #483418

    eve

    Lucy A Ghra, you cant win :).

    Her Self Righteousness, self pity and total self obsession are armour plated :roll:

    #483419

    still waiting for her to say she feels bullied by me 8)

    #483420

    @annette-curtain wrote:

    @irish_lucy wrote:

    NOONE here gets bullied.

    “A person is bullied when he or she is exposed, repeatedly and over time, to negative actions on the part of one or more other persons, and he or she has difficulty defending himself or herself.”

    Everyone CAN defend themselves and have proven so.

    END OF STORY.

    Definitions
    Bullying is an act of repeated aggressive behavior in order to intentionally hurt another person, physically or mentally. Bullying is characterized by an individual behaving in a certain way to gain power over another person.

    Yes , of course people can defend themselves- but it doesn’t mean to say it will always stop the bully- in fact , i would say on here, it encourages some people to actually join in.
    :-k

    In that case it makes you both guilty of “Bullying” does it not?

    #483421

    @A.Groanup wrote:

    @annette-curtain wrote:

    @irish_lucy wrote:

    NOONE here gets bullied.

    “A person is bullied when he or she is exposed, repeatedly and over time, to negative actions on the part of one or more other persons, and he or she has difficulty defending himself or herself.”

    Everyone CAN defend themselves and have proven so.

    END OF STORY.

    Definitions
    Bullying is an act of repeated aggressive behavior in order to intentionally hurt another person, physically or mentally. Bullying is characterized by an individual behaving in a certain way to gain power over another person.

    Yes , of course people can defend themselves- but it doesn’t mean to say it will always stop the bully- in fact , i would say on here, it encourages some people to actually join in.
    :-k

    In that case it makes you both guilty of “Bullying” does it not?

    but i dont feel remotley bullied though :roll:

    #483422

    @irish_lucy wrote:

    no one here gets bullied.

    Of course not.

    You will always get people acting as bullies on chat sites, which is a bit silly, as they only proclaim their own hidden, internal, never-quite-realised victim status and then you start to wonder about them. Dagger was always my favourite , and great fun he was to play with too, but I’ve not see anyone posting like that here for bloody yonks.

    The nearest I suppose would be thin ice which is more like a repetitive whine that you can use to bore yaself to sleep, or a droning fly easily swatted in real-time chat. Victims allowing themselves to be victims is completely another matter.

    But the best thing is that these places are an equal playing ground for all, especially those maybe lacking in confidence . . . . . Nobody should be intimidated, or to get caught up in that having the last word rubbish, and ALL have the right to their post, and to say what they want.

    And for that I’m glad it’s not like pre-internet days.

    #483423

    There is an art to chatting here though dont you think toy?

    Some people have an online confidence… Im not sure what that indicates about the “real” person but there is definitely a clique here of these for want of a better word “good” chatters.

    Even though I agree with everything you have said … I have to admit I sometimes feel intimidated… crazy isn’t it?… especially as in the “real” world I am very confident and would never stand any nonsense… but that happens rarely… in real life people are sweet to me.

    However, like you and flips … I live in Yorkshire.. gods own country…. where people are naturally friendly (well mostly) :D

    #483424

    You’re very similar to a regular (alas long gone) poster called sharongooner.

    She loved the boards but always stayed out of rooms, and who can blame her, unless it was the old radio quiz we used to have in forum 3 when we could actually listen to each other . . . =D> . . . . .

    I always gave her massive bonus points for supporting the Arsenal, and the rest I generally put up with……… 8)

    I adore Yorkshire

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