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I went into F1 this morning and witnessed two people discussing anothers personal life while said person wasnt even there. I have also had my personal life broadcatsed in the room and i think this is out of order! If someone wanted you to know the ins and outs of there life they would tell you
I agree, I had it done to me yesterday morning in F1 and all when I wasn’t even in the room. Lesson to be learnt though never tell anybody on the net personal information, cos they will most likely use it against you. :(
I agree Huggs and I think you’d agree that before we enter the room we accept a few conditions..and one of them is do not give personal information out! Sometimes we think we can trust a person to keep these details to themselves but in my experience, I’ve learnt to just keep it to myself and trust only a few. I know I’ve warned a few people about giving out information to certain people but lo and behold they do it anyway and then cry when it’s been thrown into the room for everyone to read. Smarten up people!! It’s a chat room and sad people troll it. This shouldn’t be news to you!
Ahhh Sassy, alas when someone tells you to do something, it makes you do it anyway. Plus there could be the “they wouldn’t do it to me im different” syndrome, but yeah, we all learn the hard way. Then there are the rumours and the lies ect.
Tiffany, dont let them get to you, and like me, learn to be wary before trusting people and yeah if someone warns us off certain people we should learn to listen!!
I agree though, i don’t think its right to talk about someone in the chatroom if they aren’t there to defend themselves.
@barbie_girl wrote:
Ahhh Sassy, alas when someone tells you to do something, it makes you do it anyway. Plus there could be the “they wouldn’t do it to me im different” syndrome, but yeah, we all learn the hard way. Then there are the rumours and the lies ect.
Tiffany, dont let them get to you, and like me, learn to be wary before trusting people and yeah if someone warns us off certain people we should learn to listen!!
I agree though, i don’t think its right to talk about someone in the chatroom if they aren’t there to defend themselves.
When someone warns you about giving personal information to certain ppl, it makes you want to do it anyway? That doesn’t make sense to me. I’m talking about warning chatters from other specific chatters who are known for scrolling personal information in the rooms btw. I do think it is wrong to talk about chatters when they’re not in the room to defend themselves but unfortunately chat rooms love the gossip. Just like normal people in the real world.
My skid marked pants never get gossiped about lol, even by the trolls! Think my topic from a few weeks back covers a bit of this as in if you show yourself off then people will talk about you, then again if you told someone you think you can trust then basicly they have lost your trust. I tend to keep parts of my personal life out of here and for that reason, even some of the people i trust more off here dont know about some of my life.
You cant censor what people talk about. Its a free country and all that. If the information is out there then this is what will happen.
Take it on the chin. So what if a couple of non-entities are discussing you in a chatroom? In the great scheme of things does it make a massive difference to your life? Will you lose sleep over it or hit the prozac?
Let them talk. Obviously they have nothing better to do.I wish i knew how to put the quotes in here grrr. What i meant sassy is sometimes, when you try to warn someone not to do something because you know what they are like it can kick in the stubborn gene in someone, who then feels they WANT to do it because someone has advised them not to do it. I hope that made more sense.
At the end of the day, you can’t win, if you tell people things, they spread it, if you refuse to tell people things, you are accused of being false and hiding things. At the end of the day, like LucyLocket said to me the other day, you don’t have to prove anything to anyone in the chatroom, and i think we should just try to have fun and ignore the trolls. Plus in a sort of weird way, if they are talking about you, its a compliment, they obviously think more of you than you do of them lol.
Oh and ive never claimed that whatever is in my head and makes it out onto the keyboard EVER makes any sense :p I think my brain goes faster than my fingers lol
@barbie_girl wrote:
Tiffany, dont let them get to you, and like me, learn to be wary before trusting people and yeah if someone warns us off certain people we should learn to listen!!
True barbie. I was warned several times by people not trust to certain others (no names mentioned) not a mistake I will make again though.
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