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9 October, 2010 at 2:11 pm #449516
@thin ice wrote:
@balloons wrote:
Theres nowt wrong wiv a bit of banter :D
hope you voted ballons :twisted:
oi!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! dont u look at me like that :lol:
9 October, 2010 at 4:38 pm #449517@cosy.m wrote:
imo,we are all a mixed bag on the boards,all from different places,different countries,different beliefs,but i feel thats what makes it more interesting on the boards,as opposed to chat
chat can be very fast and frenetic and people are jostling and puishing all trying to get there words in
but the boards i find i can use a more measured considered approach.
im certainly a cooler calmer person on the boards
yeh sure i get snide comments, im not the only one
but i feel the boards is more of a club,cos we all know whos typing,as opposed to chat
on the whole though its 90% banter,and thats a good thing,cos with out banter,and gentle pee taking,it would be boring.Hmmm.. there is a world of difference between Banter , pee taking , and out and out Nastiness….. although , being a sewer rat , and dumb, i’m not sure i would know . :wink:
9 October, 2010 at 5:56 pm #449518@cosy.m wrote:
ive never called you a sewer rat or dumb annette
No cosy , i didnt say you had. :wink: 8-[
9 October, 2010 at 5:58 pm #449519Some ppl leave themselves open to it – esp when they say too much about their personal life then they wonder why ppl pick up on it and use it in bitc hing against them.
9 October, 2010 at 6:29 pm #449520@cosy.m wrote:
imo,we are all a mixed bag on the boards,all from different places,different countries,different beliefs,but i feel thats what makes it more interesting on the boards,as opposed to chat
chat can be very fast and frenetic and people are jostling and puishing all trying to get there words in
but the boards i find i can use a more measured considered approach.
im certainly a cooler calmer person on the boards
yeh sure i get snide comments, im not the only one
but i feel the boards is more of a club,cos we all know whos typing,as opposed to chat
on the whole though its 90% banter,and thats a good thing,cos with out banter,and gentle pee taking,it would be boring.I agree with cosy, I prefer the boards to the chat room, I also agree that without the gentle pee taking and banter it could get boring here. Lets not get too politically correct otherwise it will all become just too sterile. There are too many rules in life, besides what would happen to poor ole Gazlan!
Teapot
10 October, 2010 at 7:16 am #449521Thing is about a ‘faceless’ message board or chat room, some people just are not themselves, they say things they wouldt say to to someones face, dont know what it is, but, the internet allows them to say what they wnat almost, be who they want to be, allow their own thoughts and bitterness/bad experiences to come out whereas mabe in real life they dont have a ‘let out area’
I like to think im me whether im in chat/message boards wherever really.
I dont like bi tching, or any sort of conflict here or in the real world but, i will however stand up for myself or anyone else i think its being badly treated.
banter is fine, bit ching and character assasination is not, bit ching is a form of bullying, no ways round it really, cheeky banter is another matter.
10 October, 2010 at 8:19 am #449522@panda12 wrote:
Some ppl leave themselves open to it – esp when they say too much about their personal life then they wonder why ppl pick up on it and use it in bitc hing against them.
Exactly right Panda. The stupidity of some users is just staggering. This applies to ALL the forums btw. It’s mainly the female users I have to say. They happily sit there and tell all their *friends* all about their private lives, kids names, where they go to school, and even details of their ailments. Thing is, they arn’t just telling their friends, they are also telling a whole roomfull of total strangers, you know the ones who just sit there watching. So complete strangers now have intimate details of their private lives, and then they react with horror, and wonder how people know all this personal stuff about them that at some stage gets plastered all over the boards. Derrrrrrrr I can’t imagine. :roll:
10 October, 2010 at 11:47 am #449523@annette-curtain wrote:
@cosy.m wrote:
imo,we are all a mixed bag on the boards,all from different places,different countries,different beliefs,but i feel thats what makes it more interesting on the boards,as opposed to chat
chat can be very fast and frenetic and people are jostling and puishing all trying to get there words in
but the boards i find i can use a more measured considered approach.
im certainly a cooler calmer person on the boards
yeh sure i get snide comments, im not the only one
but i feel the boards is more of a club,cos we all know whos typing,as opposed to chat
on the whole though its 90% banter,and thats a good thing,cos with out banter,and gentle pee taking,it would be boring.Hmmm.. there is a world of difference between Banter , pee taking , and out and out Nastiness….. although , being a sewer rat , and dumb, i’m not sure i would know . :wink:
that was short lived annette yesterday morn you said you wont post any more :P :lol: :P
10 October, 2010 at 11:48 am #449524@cath 55 wrote:
Thing is about a ‘faceless’ message board or chat room, some people just are not themselves, they say things they wouldt say to to someones face, dont know what it is, but, the internet allows them to say what they wnat almost, be who they want to be, allow their own thoughts and bitterness/bad experiences to come out whereas mabe in real life they dont have a ‘let out area’
I like to think im me whether im in chat/message boards wherever really.
I dont like bi tching, or any sort of conflict here or in the real world but, i will however stand up for myself or anyone else i think its being badly treated.
banter is fine, bit ching and character assasination is not, bit ching is a form of bullying, no ways round it really, cheeky banter is another matter.
you raise some good points cath but where does the line stop
and are you sure every time you cross it10 October, 2010 at 12:52 pm #449525@thin ice wrote:
@annette-curtain wrote:
@cosy.m wrote:
imo,we are all a mixed bag on the boards,all from different places,different countries,different beliefs,but i feel thats what makes it more interesting on the boards,as opposed to chat
chat can be very fast and frenetic and people are jostling and puishing all trying to get there words in
but the boards i find i can use a more measured considered approach.
im certainly a cooler calmer person on the boards
yeh sure i get snide comments, im not the only one
but i feel the boards is more of a club,cos we all know whos typing,as opposed to chat
on the whole though its 90% banter,and thats a good thing,cos with out banter,and gentle pee taking,it would be boring.Hmmm.. there is a world of difference between Banter , pee taking , and out and out Nastiness….. although , being a sewer rat , and dumb, i’m not sure i would know . :wink:
that was short lived annette yesterday morn you said you wont post any more :P :lol: :P
Thought i had better not Thin , after all , you would miss me wouldnt you :wink:
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