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The penny drops! hehe Iv always known who u r barbs u knw that anyway ;) and yes u were honest wen I asked u and iv never known u 2 play mind games either and as for behind closed doors no one will know wot goes on wen me n u meet ;) ;) ;)
Oh i don’t know luce, everyone knows you have turned me :p :D
it’s sweet that it’s all the nice people talking about this… None of the people being referred to ever comment hey. I think you’ve all got a point.
I’ve met some lovely people on here (and met up with a few too) but you definitely have to be careful!!
Lots of good points, and I feel like making one too.
I feel better now.
I’ve made some good friends on JC (my definition of friend may vary from yours) and I’m happy to say that I’ve also seen off some idiots too, although some remain. For now.
At the end of the day, a chatroom is what it is. A distraction. You may come in and act in a way that’s completely at odds with how you are. Or you can come in and be exactly the same. Time will prove which one you are, but not many people give you time, so they judge on what they see first time around.
Thankfully, I can usually see people and their foibles pretty quickly, even if they’re in disguise. ;)
(PS I don’t want to be in the in-crowd. The in-crowd want to be with ME.)
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@themaster wrote:
Lots of good points, and I feel like making one too.
hahahhahahah cud u av found a bigger finger to point?
proberly not as he’s been telling me for months who’s who in there im never gonna hear the end of this now
@eva licious wrote:
proberly not as he’s been telling me for months who’s who in there im never gonna hear the end of this now
u need 2 b more alert eva diva……..follow ur intuition
I think everyone makes valid points, JC has turned very cliquey and Barbie is right, people are constantly accused of being someone they are not, a name hider, a shit stirrer, whatever. Fact is most people who use chat have a reason for doing so, whether they want to disclose that info or not is upto them, just like letting people know the real person behind the name is upto each individual. At the end of the day though, people are never gunna believe u whether u are honest are not, whether thats due to the amount of shit stirrers we actually have, are down to other peoples insecurities, i dont know. What i do know is that ive always been myself in JC, yet a while ago, someone i considered to be a friend decided im a liar, and a fake and just a name on a screen, I guess that was the point that i realised how bad JC had gotten. Its no longer a place to have a laugh and catch up with friends, its a popularity contest.
In saying that, i have made some really good genuine friends here and those people know who they are.I admit the persona i am in chat is probably not completely the real me, Barbie has a bit more confidence than the real woman behind the name, who is actually quite shy.
I think this has been a good thread, no trolling remarks (where was blossom btw?) Everyone has behaved like adults, and there has been no mud slinging because we have all listened to what everyone has had to say (yeah i know lucy, it took me a while for the penny to drop, but thats what im like :p lol).
I feel like i have managed to clear the air with some people through this thread and thats good. Also through some of the comments here, maybe those of us who use chat regularly can all start trying to make it a happier place to play (yeah i know im asking the impossible there are still idiots in there). Maybe it’s time we actually used the ignore buttons and instead of it feeling like a clique or an “in crowd” we can start being friendly to all, give them the benefit of the doubt first. I have made some good friends here and for those people i am grateful. I think it’s time for us to take back the power so that none of us feel pushed out or unwelcome, despite the morons. Also, was Hot Chocolate Stirrer one of the filtered phraes? lmao
At what point did a chatroom become so complicated?
You go in, you kill some time and chat, you put losers on ignore and then leave when you’re done.
I guess if you buy into the whole brother, sister, mummy, daddy and bezzie mate online thing then you kinda have to expect it to bite you on the derriere at some point.
Perhaps a simple rule: everyone in a chatroom is just a name on a screen until they prove otherwise. This wont happen after a week or even a month!
The people from justchat that I consider friends are the ones who have proven themselves to be just that over a period of time.More than one person has mentioned a clique. Well who’s in that then? If they annoy you ignore all of them. There’s nothing which says you have to allocate ‘mate’ labels to everyone, add them to msn and divulge all your secrets to them. in the same way that its no-one’s business if and why someone is gay or anything similar. You have complete control over what you put ‘out there.’ Thats not to say you should make up a load of lies either!
My opinion of course 8)
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