Be an agony aunt

The title says “be an agony aunt”
Doesn’t means its a real question …. maybe a random question was thrown in just to see how different peeps answer? I started a similar thread somewhere..mine wasn’t serious :lol:

@toybulldog wrote:

Dear Agony Aunt.

My boobs are massive.
Not as big as the boobs in the answers above but still pretty big.

Should I be grateful that I’m not as stupid as some nor as quick to judge ?

:-

but possibly stupid enough to judge on some ones toungue in cheeck pi ss taking replys
:P

so sue me ;)

What an agony aunt should say:

Why are you asking other people to decide for you whether you should stay or go? Pull yourself together, take responsibility for your life and actions and decide what you really want from this life and go for it. You have one life; it’s up to you to decide how to live it and you reap the consequences, good or bad.

Harsh but fair :wink:

The angel cards are gentle, guiding and supportive, although even they can say quite bluntly “get out of this toxic situation.” And if that’s the message on the card, well the client can read that as well as I can!

I have all the time in the world for people who have genuine problems and need help, guidance and support in working through this life, but a listening ear, a box of tissues and ongoing support is one thing, telling someone what to do is another. I do have customers who aren’t looking for advice but want to be told what to do, will look to other people or the cards for the answers but never look within themselves for the answers. When things don’t work out then they shirk responsibility for their actions saying “I followed what he/she/the cards said. it’s not my fault.” I try to never judge another for their actions, I don’t live their life and don’t know what truly happens behind closed doors, but I do think that people should take responsibility for their actions and the consequences and not look to place the blame elsewhere.