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@jay wrote:
@forumhostpb wrote:
Frankly, the worst thing you can do with one of these keyboard gangsters is to respond to their provocation. It only encourages them to continue having a go at you. When there isn’t a ChatGuide around and you are on the wrong end of such puerile behaviour … please use the ignore facility – that’s what it is there for.
Ahhhhh ‘the iggy button’ precisely what it says on the tin basically, but so very under-rated and under-utilised.
I have been watching in the rooms and you can actually see the ‘regulars’ start to wind up said ‘naughyt kiddies’ or wind each other up, instead of using said ‘iggy button’….
fascinating to watch, mob culture at its very best i might add.
Why not just iggy the sad B*******/naughty kiddies instead of letting the comments get to you, thats what they do…say something about your mum/dad/kids/dog/cat/uncle dave/aunty flo and so on and so on…..
Unfortunately sometimes i have seen ‘the regs’ get booted too for being abusive, and rightly so, if a guide is there all parties arguing in a chat room (oh pls) should be booted until they can behave like adults.
I can honestly say in all my yrs coming in JC (and thats a fair few now) i still find it amusing and very starnge how peeps will argue/abuse/and wind each other up even over a comp screen…. net life aye….. :shock:Excatly Jay the moral to this story is if you cant hack it fck off because when 20 leave another 30 will take your place.
I find that a few not all of the guides seem to spend more time in the forum they chat in as a reg they still like to go in and have a giggle with there friends instead of spending equal amounts of time in different forums, on a day to day basis most of the guides do a bliddy good job and should be praised as it is something they choose to do in there spare time to try and make JC a nicer place to chat , some just like the feeling of power and control it gives them and in one or two cases the guides can be more abusive than the chatters, but i have to say it really gets on my tits ( and hell they aint small ) lol when chatters who moan and groan and complain about the keyboard gangsters give said numptys all the amunition they need , if u dont want someone ripping u to pieces after the death of a loved one etc recent or in the past , dont give out the info in main room , if u dont want some one sla ggin off ur picture then dont put it up , if u do still put it up then shut up and take the good comments along with the bad . when someone comes in calling you names etc , politly say thank you and then ignore the twonk, replying, calling names back , everyone ganging up on them etc , your all just playing into there hands thats what they want, to cause as much disruption in the room as possible , everyone of us has a mind of our own and an iggy button , so for god sake use both , dont give out any information that can be used against you by the numptys , use the iggy button where possible and yes i know thats not always possible with the ones who scroll and name change in a few seconds , but if u ignore it , leave and come back later , or pop of to ms n to chat to ur immediate friends etc they will get fed up and leave , the more you react the more they will do it , when will the chatters in JC allow that to sink in , ffs im sure that everyone cant be that desperate to chat in JC every minute of everyday , have a break come back later when the numptys have been put to bed by mummy and daddy or gone to school
All said tho i do believe if the chatters do there bit to try and iggy the twonks , the staff and owner/ manager should be doing more
the site is big enough that it does warrent more staff than it has and in the years i have been here i believe one of the main faults of this site is the chat guides dont get enough support from the owner / manager or more senior members of staff , and in a few cases ex chat guides themselves have found themselves on the recieving end of abuse from other staff members
in all honesty i do think that JC need to do something about there staffing levels but i really do laugh out loud lol when i hear JC will be dead in a month , JC is empty , JC is this JC is that , JC is going nowhere unless Martin gets bored of it and says Bye Bye, people thrive on the abuse the gossip the drama in JC ffs if it was all hearts and flowers i sure as hell wouldnt still be here , how many times do we all sit in the room when a newbie asks how long u all been here , 7 years i hear , 5 years i hear , 2 years i hear, 6 mnths ….. if its so bad , then why ???
didnt realise i had typed so much sowwyyyyyyyyy :oops: :oops: :oops:
:D :) :lol:
wow….. well said Jewel
i think i agree with all your points, which is what i was trying to say but not as eloquently
:wink:@jewel* wrote:
I find that a few not all of the guides seem to spend more time in the forum they chat in as a reg they still like to go in and have a giggle with there friends instead of spending equal amounts of time in different forums, on a day to day basis most of the guides do a bliddy good job and should be praised as it is something they choose to do in there spare time to try and make JC a nicer place to chat , some just like the feeling of power and control it gives them and in one or two cases the guides can be more abusive than the chatters, but i have to say it really gets on my tits ( and hell they aint small ) lol when chatters who moan and groan and complain about the keyboard gangsters give said numptys all the amunition they need , if u dont want someone ripping u to pieces after the death of a loved one etc recent or in the past , dont give out the info in main room , if u dont want some one sla ggin off ur picture then dont put it up , if u do still put it up then shut up and take the good comments along with the bad . when someone comes in calling you names etc , politly say thank you and then ignore the twonk, replying, calling names back , everyone ganging up on them etc , your all just playing into there hands thats what they want, to cause as much disruption in the room as possible , everyone of us has a mind of our own and an iggy button , so for god sake use both , dont give out any information that can be used against you by the numptys , use the iggy button where possible and yes i know thats not always possible with the ones who scroll and name change in a few seconds , but if u ignore it , leave and come back later , or pop of to ms n to chat to ur immediate friends etc they will get fed up and leave , the more you react the more they will do it , when will the chatters in JC allow that to sink in , ffs im sure that everyone cant be that desperate to chat in JC every minute of everyday , have a break come back later when the numptys have been put to bed by mummy and daddy or gone to school
All said tho i do believe if the chatters do there bit to try and iggy the twonks , the staff and owner/ manager should be doing more
the site is big enough that it does warrent more staff than it has and in the years i have been here i believe one of the main faults of this site is the chat guides dont get enough support from the owner / manager or more senior members of staff , and in a few cases ex chat guides themselves have found themselves on the recieving end of abuse from other staff members
in all honesty i do think that JC need to do something about there staffing levels but i really do laugh out loud lol when i hear JC will be dead in a month , JC is empty , JC is this JC is that , JC is going nowhere unless Martin gets bored of it and says Bye Bye, people thrive on the abuse the gossip the drama in JC ffs if it was all hearts and flowers i sure as hell wouldnt still be here , how many times do we all sit in the room when a newbie asks how long u all been here , 7 years i hear , 5 years i hear , 2 years i hear, 6 mnths ….. if its so bad , then why ???
Bloody excellent post Jewel.
Here you are !!!
Your very own
We all know how to use the iggy button thankyou
and the point is being missed
The odd abuser you can iggy or not, your choice
I agree totally there
but……
when a single scroller is determined to disrupt a room and has a dynamic internet connection, every time they are booted they come back 5 minutes later under a different name and scroll in the room again and again and again and again and again.
Its a race to find the name in the list and iggy them.
When this is done they leave and come back under a different name and so it starts again.
When you have had to do this 50 million times with different names you get a little fed up and eventually leave till the numb nuts has bored with it all. This make take some time as they are usually highly amused by themselves and are probably fiddling at the same time.The guides do their best and I don’t think any critism of them is warrented in this case
but to be continuously told, as you roll your eyes in a patronising way, to use the iggy button, gets my goat
You very accurately describe the difficulty that ChatGuides have when ‘banning’ a persistent scroller or abusive user bon bon. As you say, they simply keep on coming back over and over, sometimes for hours on end. Each time they are booted it confirms to them that they are being noticed etc etc and which simply reinforces their stupid & childish behaviour.
On a point of accuracy, when you put a user on ‘ignore’ you cannot then see their typing and more importantly they have no way of knowing that you have done this – other than your lack of reaction of course.
There is therefore no reason for them to leave and return if the ignore facility is used.
It may “get your goat” to be told to use the ‘iggy button’ but the fact is that most users simply don’t do this and prefer to get into some sort of slanging match with the abuser – thus making them worse.
Blimey jewel thought i was back in school then…..was that an essay lol
@forumhostpb wrote:
You very accurately describe the difficulty that ChatGuides have when ‘banning’ a persistent scroller or abusive user bon bon. As you say, they simply keep on coming back over and over, sometimes for hours on end. Each time they are booted it confirms to them that they are being noticed etc etc and which simply reinforces their stupid & childish behaviour.
On a point of accuracy, when you put a user on ‘ignore’ you cannot then see their typing and more importantly they have no way of knowing that you have done this – other than your lack of reaction of course.
There is therefore no reason for them to leave and return if the ignore facility is used.
It may “get your goat” to be told to use the ‘iggy button’ but the fact is that most users simply don’t do this and prefer to get into some sort of slanging match with the abuser – thus making them worse.
The person scrolling in the quiz the other night was ignored by the chatters in this case
but they still leave after a couple of minutes and come back using a different name so you have to use the iggy button all over again.
Having been a guide briefly I have a lot of sympathy ( wrong word but I know what I mean) for what they do. Its harder than it looks. They are all here voluntrarily for the good of the site and theres always someone having a go thinking they could do better. Without guides there would be no site
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