Archis message to Cherriepie

@irish_lucy wrote:

beautiful and dignified response CP, now im in love with you too xxx

“A now happily taken woman” he better treat you well or ill hope on the first plane to spider country and chop his balls off for ya x

:D Lucy!!

I will pass on your message to Mr Pie! He is deathly afraid of Spiders… ironically, so no shortage of vengeance if he doesn’t behave! :P He’s a warm, cheekily intelligent and gorgeous person… so far so good.
Thank you Lucy :) xo ♥

@grotbags wrote:

A lovely reply Cherrie! (there is no Karen or Michelle btw though).

Wise words and eloquently typed :D

:D warm wishes to you Sarah (I think) xx

Now can anyone out there give me tips on how to perfect cupcake batter? Mine seems to be a little too dense for my liking. :-k

@bullshiddy shidkins wrote:

Everyone has there own character. everyone also has the ability to adapt to their surroundings and adapt their character. For example. if you are shown a really ugly baby. of course you are not going to say ” your baby is f**king hideous” you say ”awww , isn’t he cute!!”. as you realise that it is for the greater good of everyone if you do not let your true character say what it wants to say.. we do this all the time in many situations. switch and adapt our characters. it’s called being tactful. we are all fake, when we have to be fake. it is of my view that in a chatroom scenario , especially one where there is bullying and racism, stuff that you would normally just walk away from or fight against….. why not become a character that tollerates this sort of thing for a while.. … you are still yourself. but you have adapted to survive. We generally compromise for our own peace or our own gain. as for being inhumane, well as i stated Archi was just as devisive as me, heck. he suggested putting it on the boards in the first place, so who is really pulling the strings here?. why would he mention the stuff about marriage or the stuff about his dog if he wasn’t having a good giggle to himself? there were no feelings hurt here. except possibly yours because everything is real nowadays. The reflection is always blurred. if it wasn’t. there would be no peace….

A Parody on “A Psalm of Life”

Life is real, life is earnest,
And the shell is not its pen –
“Egg thou art, and egg remainest”
Was not spoken of the hen.

Art is long and Time is fleeting,
Be our bills then sharpened well,
And not like muffled drums be beating
On the inside of the shell.

In the world’s broad field of battle,
In the great barnyard of life,
Be not like those lazy cattle!
Be a rooster in the strife!

Lives of roosters all remind us,
We can make our lives sublime,
And when roasted, leave behind us,
Hen tracks on the sands of time.

Hen tracks that perhaps another
Chicken drooping in the rain,
Some forlorn and henpecked brother,
When he sees, shall crow again.
Oliver Wendell Holmes

think outside the box/pen/shell .. be a rooster… be a parody of a love struck teen.

If I am shown what is supposed to be an ugly kid, I say nothing about the appearance of that kid.
You keep using the word “fake”, I don’t think people can be fake, I think people can avoid truths to avoid hurting other peoples feelings as you put, “in real life” settings, and as you stated, some use the online world as an outlet for their true selves. I wouldn’t go out of my way to call someones child hideous unless I was asked for my honest opinion. But you are missing the point here.
Why fabricate an entire situation/feeling/persona? For what purpose? For your own entertainment? Why? He definitely gained nothing from me or the girls he plays these games with. So, it’s odd on one hand you were so very adamant in your initial post and now on you take on stage play when honesty is called.

I didn’t like or quite grasp that poem as I don’t think it corresponded well to what you were saying.
Our intentions and thoughts lead and pave the way to inevitable action. Again…. as you stated, humans adapt, if you are adapting to a certain mindset and character, if you play the rooster or love struck teenager for too long, you eventually become that through and through. If that is what you want to be, great, take on that character at your own expense not at the expense of others. Dwell in your own misery and play on your own stage, don’t interrupt mine.
I can say that ‘Cherriepie’ the username most definitely does not do justice or define who I am as a human being, although the spirit of who I am is in there somewhere. I think that goes for most people who use social networks.

@bullshiddy shidkins wrote:

i dont prefer the blur. by ”the reflection is always blurred” i mean that no matter who you think you are, or how you have sculpted your excistence. what morrality you have. then you are always going to have to act in a different way to how you would usually react based on many variables. switching character briefly. Clarity in this situation, would kindof be like.. archi. the puppetmaster, looking in at his lovestruck teen persona, his puppet. but knowing it is just a puppet… We can all find clarity in knowing it is just a puppet too. and maybe even find humour in it? instead of being worried about wether archi is going to turn into a rooster, full time…What does he have to gain from this?. ask him… escapism from being creative maybe?…..By saying ” consumed in somthing false” . yes i do believe you are saying it is ”fake”. fake for you maybe. For archi (the version where he is infact in love with you , and not just having a laugh) then it may not be. there is no truth. only perspective. But what i am saying about adapting and being tactful and compromising for our own peace is true for all of us. so i feel i have the right to say it.
sorry you didn’t understand the poem. the rooster is a creative mind…. work the rest out

Oh okay. As I didn’t feel any connection to that poem, I will not attempt to work it out.
There is truth and there is perspective, not one or the other. Whether or not Archi is in character or not, I prefer he uses his creativity elsewhere and not on me lol I dislike being in someones play without reading the scripts beforehand.

Thanks for the message, take care.