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@kent f OBE wrote:

…and some clubs YC probably have doors on their “booths” …compréndéz? :wink:

OOO hark at you with your posh words :lol: .I would rather go on my own experiences than an article that is written by a reporter who is at the end of the day paid to sell newspapers.

@mrs_teapot wrote:

@yourchoice wrote:

@thin ice wrote:

@mrs_teapot wrote:

Ok, Have to reply to this, against my better judgement here goes.

Its true that some women do Lap dancing and survive, some have degrees some fund their way through university some do it because it fits in with family and provides a good living. When I say survive that’s just what I mean because there is another face to Lap Dancing…. why do you think that the majority (not all) of clubs have private booths? maybe for little private chats? the truth is that Lap dancing is sex on the High Street and for those who say they enjoy it

“Milly, who entered the lap-dancing industry at the age of 24, said: “Of course you have to smile, pretend you’re enjoying it. That’s the act you have to put on.”

In a candid interview with The Times, lap dancer, Milly also shatters the myth that the practice “is no more than dancing”.

“No one sticks to that,” she said. “And if you do, you quickly lose out.”

She added: “Whether individual women feel degraded by them or not, lap-dancing degrades all of us because it’s providing a socially acceptable place for women to be treated as sex objects.”

Milly also warned that men need to appreciate the negative impact which the industry is having on women.

She said: “The only way to really change things, if there is such a thing as an equal society, is if men learn to understand that paying for sexual stimulation is degrading and does have a negative impact. It’s not just a bit of fun.”

I’m glad you all had a good time on your night out and it may be that you went to a club that really was just dancing (which I doubt) but please dont try to make these clubs sound innocent and just entertainment. That might be the experience you had… but dont kid yourself that’s all it is for all men.

Teapot

dont think i could have put it better my self mrs tea
at last some one with some morals on the boards

You have got to be having a laugh!!

you think I dont have morals YC?

I didnt mean that at all Mrs T.I was referring to thin who in his own silly way was trying to take the moral high ground.

@kent f OBE wrote:

Gaz!!! You’re the stalker who hides behind the flower stand in Tesco’s frightening the life out of that poor girl remember? :lol:
Chillax! It is possible to make an observation on personal experience. You do not have to experience every single female in that industry to make a comment.

SILENCE woman ! An observation is not conclusive proof of what has been discussed, only a fool would suggest otherwise !

It might interest you to know that i purposely refrain from showing myself, why break the girls heart ? :wink:

@kent f OBE wrote:

Hey…I’m not knocking your comments or anybody elses for that matter….just put my own opinions in. I think even you know YC that all the clubs are not strictly regulated.

Yes i have read about them so i dont know that to be fact all i was stating is what i know to be fact and now im getting picked on :oops: