an open letter

Why do the majority of Stephens posts go into graphic detail of lurid sexual acts…. makes you wonder doesnt it.

@esmeralda wrote:

@stephen1 wrote:

Cath,

being bullied and threatened is all part of JC isn;t it?
I’ve had sword doing it to me for years.

It used to get me down at one time.
Nobody seemed to care. Crying or Very sad

But hey….life goes on and you learn to fend for yaself.
Your post surprised me.
Nobody ever did anything like that for me when I needed it.

Well, it isn’t any wonder, because you are a f-ucking, whinging baby. Unlike you, Cath has integrity and a backbone.

The Internet may indeed be buyer beware, but that doesn’t excuse the weak-minded, with yet weaker morals, from hiding behind the ejaculate that sticks to their computer screen, and hurling their evil, viscous bile into the cyber-world. In the real world they cower from the creak of the chair that they jerk-off in, with their oily, fat hands highlighting their ineptitude in even that sphere. They dream of splintered broom handles in their rectum, and sucking on their dog’s pink protuberance; which would sicken the mangiest of mutts. The shadow of their own repugnance is never far from their evil psyche and, hence, they promulgate the only thing that their synapses fire, that being filth. Filth, that has been further degraded by a spirit that fled long ago, for the more generous climes of a pile of sweet dog shyt.

Dagger, only a f-cking coward’s coward would use such a handle, one that needs shoving down your cretinous, obsequious, scatological pie-hole.

For all you people who think that baiting someone in a public forum is fun, or nothing of consequence are people who have lost a piece of your humanity. You may crack-wise, but you will not be wise, nor have wit. Even a dullard can humiliate with sarcastic cracking, but it takes a person of grace and intelligence to take a stand beside a friend. There are not two sides to this story, there is but one story. A weakling tried to bring down another, and that fact has been laid bare. You may debate the Internet is this and that, but every interaction between humans should be of some import; if not, then why the f-uck are you here in the first place? If you think that, because you don’t know someone, or will never meet them that it doesn’t matter how you treat them, or accord yourself, then you have duped even your myopia…people matter.

Sometimes a person must take a stand, yes, even amongst the foolishness of an Internet forum where even the lowliest coward will race to have the last word, and attempt to render that stand impotent. I applaud your stand, Cath, it is a quality all too rare these days. I recognized in your poetry a genuine person, and I don’t need a web-cam, a chat on the phone, or to meet you in person to know that…I am humbled by the beauty of your spirit.

Stephen

Stephen, you’re mistaking the enemy when you attack Actor in the manner which you have in your opening sentence. His observation was born out of sadness and frustration, and was posted with a touch of irony. He was neither having a dig at Cath nor sanctioning online bullying.
Damning Actor as a ”f ucking whinging baby’ without ‘integrity or a backbone.’ sounds damn close to bullying to me. With benefit of the doubt I’m assuming that you read his post the wrong way, and equally with benefit of the doubt, I hope you’ll retract that part of your statement and apologise.

Dear Esmeralda, as a person whom I highly respect, I have considered all that you have said. Yes, it was hasty of me to judge Sir Actor in that manner, but I’m afraid I was also given over to my own welling emotions on the matter. A fall-back position for many people, especially on the Internet, is to say that they were being ironic. Well, the use of real irony takes skill and acumen; otherwise it is more sarcasm. On such a sensitive matter, one would think that people would write prudently, and edit the more facile parts of their brain, before putting finger to keyboard. Otherwise, an off-hand remark might be misread as something contemptible.

Dear Sir Actor: Esmeralda knows you better than I, and so if she says I overstepped my bounds then I take it seriously. However, did you not find your comment to Cath, at the very least, patronizing? Especially in light of the fact that she was sticking up for her friend on a very serious matter. Sometimes being a man means being manly, taking a side, defending openly, without the use of “irony,” what you mean. Well, enough of that. I do realize that you are not the enemy, and are not at all of the bullying ilk. You come here to have a bit of fun, and there is certainly no malice in your cyber-voice. Many of the things you write actually give me a chuckle. So, Sir Actor, in the spirit of board harmony, a realization that you are hurting yourself, and an acknowledgment of my own poor choice of words toward you, I unreservedly apologize.

Stephen

Health and Efficiency mag is nearer the mark :wink:

@pete wrote:

@sir Actor wrote:

@cath 55 wrote:

I cant beleive that a person on here has bullied and threatened someone so much they felt forced to reveal the most intimate details about themselves.

Cath,

being bullied and threatened is all part of JC isn;t it?
I’ve had sword doing it to me for years.

It used to get me down at one time.
Nobody seemed to care.

But hey….life goes on and you learn to fend for yaself.
Your post surprised me.
Nobody ever did anything like that for me when I needed it.

No it isnt part of being JC at all

Of course it is!!! Its been proven time after time..no one gives a shi.t that people are allowed to run riot in the rooms, how may times have people said that abuse goes on…and not just when one guide is in the room, but several!!

Same applies to the boards, anything goes..and personally I wouldnt have this place any other way. Ive said it before, if people cant take the banter, there are plenty of other sites on the net where its all nicey nicey, why dont they leave here and join somewhere more suited to themselves? Im sick of hearing about people moaning about how they hate this place and what goes on here, yet oddly enough, these very people for some reason just cant drag themselves away. Admit it, without the banter this place would be dead and none of us would bother coming here.

…oh and btw i thought stephens war and peace episode about how bullying disgusts him etc etc was made to look rather pathetic by his opening statement..

“Well, it isn’t any wonder, because you are a f-ucking, whinging baby. Unlike you, Cath has integrity and a backbone.” You big bully Stephen! :roll:

@sir Actor wrote:

Cath,

being bullied and threatened is all part of JC isn;t it?
I’ve had sword doing it to me for years.

It used to get me down at one time.
Nobody seemed to care.

But hey….life goes on and you learn to fend for yaself.
Your post surprised me.
Nobody ever did anything like that for me when I needed it.

You have received an apology after getting a bashing from a Canadian

I wonder if they do the same for seals.