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can i have a males view on this please ?? !!!! I need some HELP understanding men lol !!!
I really like a guy i sometimes see at work, my “friend” told him that i fancy him….this was a month ago…since then the now ex friend has sent anon texts to him saying awful things…like he was told i fancied him to make me look desperate, that if he gets lots of texts telling him how i feel he will get fed up and ignore me etc, that it serves me right for telling her i wanted him…you get the drift…its like it really backfired !1
Well this week he got more texts….he text me then forwarded them all to me….i was really shocked as they clearly stated how i felt about him and he was forwarding them to me !!!
Upshot is he asked me out for a drink, we went, wednesday…..i drove him home and he got a bit flustered chatting when he was going to get out the car….normally really confident and professional lol…he kissed me on the cheek/side of my mouth then the next thing i saw was him exiting the car lol…..!!!! he was gone !!!!
I have text him since to say thanks for listening to me and being supportive etc….and that i have learnt my lesson re telling friends too much…..we chatted re the texts but neither of us mentioned the content re me fancing him by the way !!
I have had no reply to the text i sent……yet
What do i do….wait ???
Do i have hope ???
He is in no doubt after the texts how i feel…..yet i obviously havent told him cos he’s been told ! So why kiss me when he knows i want him…its so cruel on me if he isnt going to follow up surely ????
Pleasee give me some perspective on this !!
Thank you so much !!!lol ere u got ur knickers in a wee twist eh….. welcome to the *Wailin Wall* Fiona…. i wudnt txt him back, don’t pester him, or u will appear to be despo…!! leave the ball in his court…. if its to be… then u’ll here from him, if not…. move rite on…. life goes by too quickly… MJ
Show up at his house naked and carrying beer. He’ll warm to you.
dont tempt me lol !!!!!
Hey u r right lol !!! listen tho, when he forwarded the awful texts i was shocked and didnt text him till he txt me and asked if i was ok….which obviously i wasnt !!….he then said “call me anytime”….i txt him my home no and he immed rang…….so surely if he was fed up with my over zealous x friend then he didnt need to take me for 4 hrs in the pub and kiss me goognight did he !!! lol
Too many ppl txt each other these days, so Pluty keeps harping on at me, so phone him, you would be able to tell by his voice if he is interested or not
maybe then i am making too much out of this cos i want there to be something…….just seems cruel to kiss, whatever type, when he knows i want him !!!!!!!!!!!!!
@tommy-toxen wrote:
but if i was a guy
u mean ur not ??? :lol: :lol: :lol:
soz couldn’t resist ive been drinking sarcastic cola hehehehehehe
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10.
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRRRRGHHHH!! :evil: :evil: :evil:
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