It is very interesting when people look at comments on a board and read into them the worsts possible scenario. It reminds me of those pictures that people get shown by psychiatrists. You know the kind of thing, where it looks like two people kissing to one person, and a devil on horseback to another! The insight can be fascinating. Glass half full people vs glass half empty. Oh isn’t that dreadfull lets all beat our chests and wail vs yes its terrible, but hey bad things happen and a funny thing happened to me on the way to the pub last night wanna hear about it?
People deal with bad stuff in different ways. It doesn’t make someone heartless just because they try and inject a bit of wry humour.