its ok, i just wanna play hard to get, it says so in this book
its a good book, appently when entering a room, you got to approach the girl you like within 6 seconds
but when you approach the girl, you approach the group she is in, and you pay no attention to the girl you are after, infact you mock her down and say somthing negitive about her, nothing cruel, somthing like, i think you have spilt a bit of drink down your top
appently this puts them on the defensive and you have control :)