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12 March, 2007 at 2:36 pm #6548
ill start with ‘iam a straight guy’ why do i feel the need to make that my first statement? because gay males are allowed to and do in my experience make that a in ur face statement before any other with out predice!
i have a few questions and points to make, i hope no one finds them offensive and u use this thread productivly and wisely to change mine and others that might share my opinions.
point 1/
why do a large percentage of homosexuals think because a straight person has a negative opinion about homosexuality, their in the closet!!!???
its perfectly possible in the law of chance for a person to have a negative opinion about anything and not have a secret desire for it!
why, because iam living prove, i can chat away as i wish on here without perdices or anyone knowin who i am, and still honestly say i like ONLY females!
my friend shared a very upseting experience inwhich a trusted male forced things of a sexual nature on him. this guy, and i not sayin its justified, hates gay men, now u wud have to be a cold hearted person to not allow him his right to feel that way after what he went threw. one day a gay guy i know made comments at how he was gona pull him cuz he was cute! i adviced it a bad idea as he hates gay men, instantly he commented ‘his in the closet’! i cud of smacked that arogent twit (to put it nicely) and almost wanted him to so i cud see his smug homo ass get kick around the street!
point 2/
i know as a whole men are persistant! particually with sex as the subject matter. but why does it seem to me anyway, that gay men are the worse!!! for example i forget how many times ive heard a comment like ‘i can or will turn any guy gay’ why? why do i care? why do u care? why do u feel the need to make that point? why dont u understand ur talkin about ppl or a person, not a slab of in the closet meat u can pick up and mess about with like ur some kinda special homosexual turnin king!
for yrs and yrs u cry for equal rights, well not only do u have them now! u now want special rights! for christ sake ginger ppl are slaughtered more that homosexuals these days! its past being excepted, it just a fact!
stop ponsing around lettin the world know ur sexual oriatation! no one cares! its a personal subject, and unless ur intermate with the person its damn right inoproriate!
a huge percentage of the homosexual public are creating a bad name for ur sexuality, i used to be very excepting, so much that i choose to lodge with a gay guy for 3yrs! but now my opinion is changing, iam a very social person, i meet many ppl and from what i can make out the homosexual public are a bunch of attension seeking ppl that think they hav some kind of duty to the gay race to assist other men into believing or excepting their gay! according to my house mate every guy that walks in to my house is gay! infacts thats the first comment he will make! iam sure on occasions his correct but if my sertistic are correct 4 out of 5 men on this planet are gay!
anyway i feel ive got this issue off my chest now. thanks for readin and feel free to comment
12 March, 2007 at 2:55 pm #264063@dead_on_arrvial wrote:
why do a large percentage of homosexuals think because a straight person has a negative opinion about homosexuality, their in the closet!!!???
Because their scared of being a minority, and are desperate to guide as many straight people to gayism as possible.
i know as a whole men are persistant! particually with sex as the subject matter. but why does it seem to me anyway, that gay men are the worse!!!
Sexually, gay men are more upfront about their sexuality, because its a new thing, that is, younger men are, they become liberated. Its also part of our human make up to feel proud about being different. Go to a gay club, and they all bitch each other with real hatred at times. Older gay men are more relaxed.
for yrs and yrs u cry for equal rights, well not only do u have them now! u now want special rights!
Lets have segregation, gays have political and social control of Soho, brighton and cANAL street Manchester, straights have everything else, neither has to put up with the other then.
stop ponsing around lettin the world know ur sexual oriatation! no one cares! its a personal subject, and unless ur intermate with the person its damn right inoproriate!
Vote against them, dont vote for the old gang. Dont watch graham norton, dale winton etc, dont watch certain gay friendly tv programmes.
12 March, 2007 at 2:56 pm #264064You live in Brighton. It should be us asking you the questions about being gay!
12 March, 2007 at 4:23 pm #264065I am a straight man, 100% heterosexual. I generally prefer female company to male company socially too. If I was female I’m certain I would be a lesbian. There, can’t be more honest than that, can I?
12 March, 2007 at 9:47 pm #264066I know the types of gays you are talking about, but they are not all like that, well not in my experience anyway. I think this era we are currently in if the first time people can openly celebrate their “gayness” after years of being supressed.
What I disagree with and this is just me, is it being paraded on TV before 9pm, because, the norm to me is being straight. I want my kids to be brought up to believe that normal is straight, meeting a person of the opposite sex and being happy. At their ages that is what I believe. When they are old enough to understand not only themselves, but that its okay to be gay then so be it.
I just dont want it over-influenced/over paraded/over the top for the sake of tv ratings.
I know that may sound a bit contradictory, but In all honesty, if we are all being honest that is what we want.
If my son at 15 or 16 + tells me he feels he is gay then fair enough. He will know how he feels and I will support him. But I dont want TV companies throwing in cheap gay bits on their shows for my kids to see, which I think are inappropriate.
Going back to your statement DOA, I think it was a bit sweeping, and I think your wrong to tar the whole gay “community” with the same brush.
Where would we be without four poofs and a piano afterall? :wink:
13 March, 2007 at 12:32 pm #264067Maybe the men getting hitting on by a gay man is getting pay back for the way they’ve treated women. :roll:
Why is that if a woman is not interested in a guy, she’s automatically a lesbian? Or, why is that it men believe they can satisfy any woman sexually if given the chance? Woman have been groped and cackled at for years by men. I think it’s quiet interesting to see some men getting what they’ve dished out to women for years. :twisted:13 March, 2007 at 2:34 pm #264068Maybe the women getting hit on by a lesbian is getting pay back for the way they’ve treated men. :roll:
Why is that if a man is not interested in a woman, he’s automatically gay?
Or, why is that it women believe they can satisfy any man sexually if given the chance? Men have been groped and cackled at for years by women.
I think it’s quite interesting to see some women getting what they’ve dished out to men for years. :twisted:13 March, 2007 at 4:09 pm #264069PB, i dont know why you have to generalize :wink:
I agree with sharon, its imperitive that the parent has absolute say on something so important in their childrens lives.
The problem with new labour, they think they are the parent, and think they are the one’s to tell us how we should live, dictators.
13 March, 2007 at 6:02 pm #264070@emmalush wrote:
PB, i dont know why you have to generalize :wink:
I agree with sharon, its imperitive that the parent has absolute say on something so important in their childrens lives.
The problem with new labour, they think they are the parent, and think they are the one’s to tell us how we should live, dictators.
Generalise ???? Moi??? All I did was quote AW but revverse the sexes – it sure does expose prejudices though & makes interesting reading huh?
13 March, 2007 at 9:18 pm #264071its the 21st Century
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