A bit of light reading for you Pt 2.

I think you’ll find that 90% of chatters in there do that. Its a tough lesson to learn, don’t trust anyone unless you have known them a long time, and even then some things should not be spoken to a name on a screen :?

@Bemused Bystander wrote:

I agree we all have our opinions on chatters, and as previously posted, the first thread was more or less on the money. This one however seems to have been written with cotton wool fingers whilst looking through rose coloured spectacles.

Type doesn’t carry tone. Perhaps that’s what’s happened when you’ve read certain chatters and what they say in the lobby.

If stirring the natives was your mission, job done. Impartial views? Far from it seems.

Pfft…more or less on the money IN YOUR OPINION…which surprises me tbh

I don’t like all the well reasoned structured analysis of whats been said I just like all the slaggy off bits,come on there must be more,ive got loads.

After reading both parts of this thread, and the responses, I pondered for a while as to whether I should bother to respond as it is all really quite pathetically laughable. Nevertheless, having a spare half an hour I decided to any way, for what its worth.

Diddlysquat, you state your post was designed to name and shame chatters for their behaviour, you continued to name and shame a number of chatters with “your observations” from the, as you claim, mere 3 months you have been using JC. You use the “your opinion” throughout both posts many many times, which prompted my response here today as there are on my part, and quite clearly from the posts of others, many flaws in YOUR OPINION FROM JUST 3 MONTHS. A short recap of some things that I personally would question.

merrymanofnotts … preying on under age girls … is this opinion, observation or just hearsay? or a malicious slander designed to incite hatred?

ave dude …. scruffy … you have seen him then to make YOUR opinion? So can I conclude that you as a male chatter, during your very busy 3 months, have approached another male chatter who has nothing decent to say (in your opinion), yet asked him for photos of himself, and he who is trawling the net for women (in your opinion) has obliged your request? this seems very unlikely to me unless of course something very underhand has occurred like exchanging photos with others, or are you just a FaceBook predator also lol lol

Claire Wales … throws herself under cars … your observation or just rumour and gossip acquired in your tender 3 months?

soulbabe ….. seeks men at meet(s) (plural) implying more than one meet. Well there have been no meets to my knowledge that soulbabe has attended in the last 3 months and that is a fact! So how this can be your observation from that time beats me!

BLonde … meets up with people younger than herself and then treats them like dirt once in their company. You have met BLonde then? and was this how you made your observation? or is this just more hearsay?

Just a few of many discrepancies and indiscretions, I could continue loads but I wont. It did leave me with a view point though which I am going to share with you.
The above hearsay, rumour, gossip, facts which ever they may be, and which YOU claim to have made such opinions on are NOT from the last 3 month period as some go back many years ! and all have been heard before many many times. In my humble opinion only a fool would make such judgements on only one side of any story, and hearsay !!

You also made a kind comment in favour of Annette Curtains “she says what she thinks, even if it has brought her share of nastiness that has been thrown at her OVER THE YEARS” Well to the best of my knowledge we have barely seen Annette Curtains in here over the last 3 months, and how do you know what has been thrown at her for YEARS if you’ve only been here for 3 MONTHS?

I conclude 2 things,
1. you are infact a reg chatter known to us all who is hiding due to not having the integrity and back bone to say all this in your real name… what a coward. Probably, using your real chat name reg chatters have far more to say about you and you can give it but clearly cant take it ! ..well not in your own name any way.
By namehiding you clearly can not be judged as you have happily judged others and in some cases quite unfairly.

2. You have based your observations / opinions on hearsay, gossip and rumours, from other chatters, allowing yourself to be manipulated, and not doing the moral and decent thing of finding out the facts or taking the time to get to know the individuals and to judge them for yourself. Shame on you !!!

You mention in your post about bullies, but isn’t your name and shame campaign here just another form of bullying? using personal insults on chatter’s personal appearance and other comments on their lifestyles. I dont see how any chatters personal appearance can make them a better or worse chatter or person. Diddlysquat, I don’t suppose you’re no oil painting yet people chat to you. You certainly though in the last 3 months seem to have been busy collecting info about others and checking out their appearances for all your opinions lol. He who lives in a glass house shouldn’t throw stones.

For a supposed “new chatter” who made such bold observations they are infact not observations at all but are merely a hotchpotch account of the very typical idle gossip, rumours and slander from nasty natured people, with intent to upset and hurt others. Instead of taking chat for what it should be, a fun place to chat, gather and have a laugh, sadly negativity is what we have come to expect from certain chatters within JC nowadays! but I think your posts actually says so much more about you than it does others !!!!

You, by your own admission, set this post to shake the place up and have chosen to use the boards on JC to not only bully, incite hatred, insult certain chatters, but to also create FURTHER gossip, division, drama, possible further arguments and conflicts within chat and all that as a “New chatter”

Naturally I have based my response here on the facts. It’s a shame that you as a new or old chatter, havent based your views on facts but just spiteful old news !

Do I think you are a new chatter? LOL LOL LOL I think we all are of the same opinion that you are most certainly not! However, obviously this can’t be proved and if you haven’t got the guts of doing this in the name which we all know you as then you are never gonna admit to it either, however the truth always comes out eventually and until then, you will be among us all smiling, chatting, being totally 2 faced and enjoying the gossip of others getting blamed and being accused for your actions here on these posts, something to be proud of ??? many would suggest not! which doesn’t make for a good chat experience for many others who actually want to go to chat just for the laughs!

Are you even male ? … to me, and many others, your constant over use of trying to convince chatters you are male would strongly indicate you are infact female.

It’s a shame that your “shake the room up” approach wasn’t done in a far more positive way, allowing all chatters to enjoy and cause a more fun experience for all in chat like what rusty trawler did with his jc mags instead of this negative approach in creating a big negative drama, something I suggest you strive on.

As a “new chatters” contribution to JC, welcome yourself to the list of those who desperately try to bring the room down instead of trying to enhance it and uplift it. I hear what seems to be vindictive and malicious views of an old (and probably disgraced) former chatter and you are merely just adding yourself to the already known long list of attention seekers, bullies, trolls, and name hiders.

It’s remarkable that no one knows you or has chatted to you, yet throughout your posts, knowingly or unknowingly you have left ample clues as to an identity, and with out the help of Mr. Sherlock Holmes’ powers of deduction, I’m sure many can and will narrow you down to one of a very short list of individuals, and quite possibly a collaboration of a motley crew of misfits, pariahs, outcasts, and attention seeking drama queens :) Cowardly actions I would suggest from already known chatter(s) to all.

Thanks for reading my War and Peace efforts here, aren’t you all glad I dont post often hahahaha :)