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Here’s a list of what NOT to do if your girlfriend is breaking up with you.
1) Do NOT fight with her. Fighting ALWAYS creates tension and kills attraction. Fighting with a woman is useless. Even if you win the argument, you will still lose the war.
2) Do NOT try to use logic to show her why she should come back to you. Love is based on FEELINGS, not logic. No matter how brilliant your logic is, she’s still going to leave
you.3) Do NOT reassure your ex that you have “changed” so things will be “different from now on”. It’s like trying to bail water out of a sinking boat. It won’t work. The hole is still there and your words are not going to mend it.
4) Do NOT keep telling her you love her. She won’t care. All a woman cares about is how much SHE loves YOU…not the other way around!)
5) Do NOT beg her to come back. The more you beg, the more she will ignore you.
6) Do NOT try to make her feel guilty about leaving you. (Examples: “I can’t work without you.” and “Don’t break up with me during exam period…”) It won’t work. It will only make her DREAD being with you even more.
7) Do not act depressed so they will feel bad for you. Sympathy does NOT equal ATTRACTION!
8) Do NOT talk to her friends to win their support. All she cares is how SHE fees about you. Even if her friends love you, they can’t make her love you forever. External pressure never lasts longer. If your girl decides to stay with you, her motivation has to come from WITHIN.
9) Do NOT spend money on gifts and flowers for her. You
can’t buy her heart back with money.10) Do NOT push her into getting back with you. The more you push, the more she will PULL AWAY.
These are the most common mistakes guys make during a breakup. Trust me, you don’t want to do ANY of these things.
If you do, I can guarantee you your relationship will be doomed.
You probably won’t even get a chance to kiss your girlfriend goodbye, let alone get her back.
Heheheee, seems like our buddy, DOA, has tonnes of experience here people.
Looks like he has tried all these methods on various girlfriends and obviously failed…..miserably! :lol:true Hermy…but you have to agree ..He’s right :shock: :!: :!:
so if i do them on a woman i want to dump me shel do it
Best thing to do is just agree, and remain friends. Then there might be hope :D
@alan snowman wrote:
so if i do them on a woman i want to dump me shel do it
NNNNOOOOOOO alan :!: :!: She’ll probably go out and book the church :!: :shock: :P ( can i be bridesmaid :?: pleeeaaaasssseeeeee :wink: )
of course you can but i wont be there as im like most men first sign of commitment and i flee
hmmmmm for a bloke u know far to much about the girl thing are u wanting to become one or are u gay…… cause they say no one knows a girl best than a gay man… or something like that…….
@sunshine1 wrote:
hmmmmm for a bloke u know far to much about the girl thing are u wanting to become one or are u gay…… cause they say no one knows a girl best than a gay man… or something like that…….
No one knows a woman better than a bloke who has been out with a few or even married to a couple :lol: :lol: :lol:
lol he learns to hire a better lawyer each time he gets married
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