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  • 3 January, 2008 at 9:29 pm #8870

    rossylass

    Could people please give me their opinions on wether they think that swinging is right or wrong?

    I know a couple of people and they have mix reviews on the subject……

    One friend of mine can see no wrong in consenting adults swinging ……..they believe that as long as both parties are consenting and happy that it is ok. That it can enhance a relationship after all it is only sex.

    My other friend says that it is both ethically and morally wrong, no matter wether both parties are consenting.
    They believe that when a couple are married that means that they dont need anything or anyone else ……….

    Could you please let me know your views on this ……….

    3 January, 2008 at 9:32 pm #300426

    sharongooner

    I think its right. Provided everybody involved knows the score, and its well away from any kids there’s nowt wrong with it.

    You only live once :wink:

    All parties have to be willing and not be forced or doing it to please the other, or to hold a broken relationship together…

    3 January, 2008 at 9:34 pm #300427

    rossylass

    Well put Sharon …………..

    I think everyone has the right to choose what they want to do in their relationship.

    If both parties are happy and enjoy why not?………After all they are doing it together and not behind their partners back………….where trouble can begin…..

    3 January, 2008 at 9:35 pm #300428

    Pebbles

    im with shazza, if they hurt nobody wheres the harm?

    3 January, 2008 at 9:37 pm #300429

    Pebbles

    btw we know the “friend” is you rossy :wink: :lol:

    3 January, 2008 at 9:37 pm #300430

    rossylass

    Thank you pebbles……

    3 January, 2008 at 9:38 pm #300431

    sharongooner

    Sex is sex and love is love. Both can enhance the other. I think the only danger would be if you then developed deeper feelings. Perhaps the key is to swing as much as possible, with as many as possible, so as to minimise the risk!

    There is a fair arguement that sex should be with one person for the rest of your life and that it is deceitful, but how can it be deceitful if EVERYBODY consents?

    Good topic Rossy!! :D

    3 January, 2008 at 9:55 pm #300432

    Miss Minx

    @sharongooner wrote:

    I think its right. Provided everybody involved knows the score, and its well away from any kids there’s nowt wrong with it.

    You only live once :wink:

    All parties have to be willing and not be forced or doing it to please the other, or to hold a broken relationship together…

    ^

    What she said 8)

    3 January, 2008 at 10:15 pm #300433

    sharongooner

    I would also add that I would not get into a row about it. Its one of those subjects that I think you either agree or disagree on. Each persons points are probably valid.

    (before anybody has a go at me lol!!) :lol:

    3 January, 2008 at 10:24 pm #300434

    rossylass

    Well said ……………. everyone has their own points of view on the subject……

    I myself think that as long as no one is getting hurt and its not flaunted, then live and let live…………

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