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29 September, 2006 at 9:20 pm #5270
i would just like to as if anyone after splitting from their boyfriend/girlfriend has genuinly remained friends with them?
You see i have only days ago split from my boyfriend, we just weren’t working, lost the spark, and started behaving like friends. Well now i really hope this can be possible because i love him as a person, my friend but not boyfriend. And after spending time with him tonight i realise more i need him as my friend.
So again, is this possible?
29 September, 2006 at 9:39 pm #243020not much point really in being friends after being in a relationship, the friendship will just fade in time… when you both find somone else
move on i say
29 September, 2006 at 10:36 pm #243021are u fa real fred? :roll:
30 September, 2006 at 12:21 am #243022@matty wrote:
not much point really in being friends after being in a relationship, the friendship will just fade in time… when you both find somone else
move on i say
:lol: I bet your glass is always half empty.
I am friends with my ex, we get on very well indeed, infact, I get on with all my ex’s. 8)
30 September, 2006 at 1:08 am #243023I have to think back a long way to find my last ex lol
Most I have either just lost contact with, but a couple are still friends.
I remember going to a new hairdresser, and realising the guy doing my hair was someone I went out with when I was 16…I moved on after he tried to get me to have a 3some with his best mate. :roll:
He’s gay now…so that explains that!! :lol: :lol: :lol:
30 September, 2006 at 1:20 am #243024Dunno – he must have had sex with his mate without me after I dumped him :lol:
Just for the record…none of the others have turned gay :shock: :lol:
30 September, 2006 at 1:34 am #2430253 October, 2006 at 10:22 am #2430263 October, 2006 at 12:41 pm #243027@bymagic wrote:
i would just like to as if anyone after splitting from their boyfriend/girlfriend has genuinly remained friends with them?
You see i have only days ago split from my boyfriend, we just weren’t working, lost the spark, and started behaving like friends. Well now i really hope this can be possible because i love him as a person, my friend but not boyfriend. And after spending time with him tonight i realise more i need him as my friend.
So again, is this possible?
You’re spending time with someone you just dumped? Is that like to torture him and give him the slightest hope that you may get back together just to kick his legs from under him every time he thinks “maybe, jus maybe”. Does he have no self respect!
When he comes round next time n says he had the most amazing sex the night before with someone he’d just met…if you’re likely to be devastated then stop ars/ing around and get back with him. If you ain’t bothered what he does, let him get on with it but don’t string him along- jeez, that is heartless!
3 October, 2006 at 2:55 pm #243028I get it, some times the feelings just go away but the relationship goes on.. “how to end it and what happens after it?” :roll:
but my question is: if the relationship ends but the feelings don’t…where do the feelings go? :-s -
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