so what do you think?

Why is it that men ask the question, “so what do you think” meaning what do you think of me, will there be a second date.

Word to the wise guys this is not a fair question no woman likes to put on the spot and usually if you don’t want to know the answer don’t ask the question. If you have to ask then you probably are not going to like the answer.

Through out the date people should be able to pick up on vibes the two are giving off, body language open or closed, eye contact direct or distant , flirty ( making gestures touchy feely) these are all signals that she may be into you and can see herself going out with you again.

If her body language in close and eye contact not direct no flirtiness chances are there is no chemistry……so please don’t embarrass yourself or her by asking what she thinks of you. You may think she is the nicest and hottest woman you have laid eyes on but if she is not feeling it ( you will hopefully pick on the vibes) there will be no second date it has to be mutual.Of course if she stops the date midway you pretty much have your answer or the coffee is only 10-20 minutes instead of 1-2 hours.

What would more appropriate is wait till the date is over walk her to her car tell her you enjoyed her company and if you could call her again ( only if you have gotten a good feeling from her). That way she can say, ” yes that would be fine” You then can plan something else to do with her.

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