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do you ever feel let down?
have you ever had a friendship breakdown, because you have reliesed for the past 12 months you have made all the effort and had nothing in return, just false promises and let downs, and when it comes to the crunch, when you really need your mate/lover/whatever.. they rather help somone else with a meaningless task
I’m not giving up, but i’m getting frustrated by it all from a number of different friends of late, mainly those who have their own lifes now, who needs friends hey when they have own relationship hey? I don’t blame them to be honest
Time to go on my own i think from now on, maybe move out of town, find my own feet and be in a situration where the only person to let me down, is myself.
I’m not depressed, more the opps now, done a lot of thinking… way too much, thats what lieing in a tent with no matrose at 2am in the morning does to you, unable to get to sleep
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what was the point of the rolling eye smily?
@matty wrote:
what was the point of the rolling eye smily?
I think your starting to lose touch with your masculine side… get to a dr’s before its to late.
yeah i know, it was’nt a moaning thread really.. it was just a thread for people to discuss friendships
what i really wanted was… what comes first… the mrs.. or the friend?
and if its the mrs.. then why? friends have been there longer for most cases
this shyte that this post makes me sound female is all nonsense, wish people get of my case with that rubbish, so what i am very open when it comes to emotion, it don’t make me wanna buy a pink handbag for god sake
matty…….wen a bloke gets married obviously his wife comes first !
dunt matter how long u bin mates…………..he aint gonna carry on avin nights out wif the lads to keep em happy.otherwise wats the point gettin married?………..u ned to sit back an think whats really troubling u………..i got no problem with the married bloke to be honest, that was somthing i put in there in general, that friends drift apart
i don’nt see why a wife should come first to be honest, if my mate needed a shoulder to cry on cause he was feeling down, and my other half had planned a night in front of the TV
i’ll put the friend first, you can watch tv with your wife anyway day of the year
and rolls reverse, if you promised a mate a night out at the pub, but your wife is upset, you cancell the night out at the pub
Being married 18 yeas matty iv tried to put my true friends first not the m8s but friends first but its hard because MR sunny and the lil sunny 1s have to come beofre any 1 and any think
well the lil sunny 1s do he is big enough and ugly enough to fend for him self
But we all grow and move on im my eyes dont matter how close you are you have to put the familey first
Friends mean alot to me but my familey mean so much more
hope this makes sence :roll: :roll: 8)
matty i had a best mate since i was 17………..but my hubby comes first…i seen her thro 2 marriage breakdowns.one of them bein to my brother !…………..u cant expect relationships to stay same once a mate as met the girl he intends hopefully to spend the nxt 40 odd yrs wif……dunt mean fa one minute u cant still be there for each other. relationships change.grow.move on..u have to accept this.
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