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let down somone gently
we are not a couple really, just been really good friends, she wants to see more of me, but i don’t want to lead her on, as i don’t feel anything for her that way
do i just ignore her, do i try again talking to her (she never listens)
or shall i go out and kiss somone else in front of her
or do i just go out with her to keep her quiet
or do i introuduce her to my mum to scare her off
or do i just eat lots, get fat again, so she does’nt like me anymore
or do i move to scotland and stay with squeezys younger sister, have babies and live on drifters
or do i go to durham uni for a play in the showers
or do i get changed and finish of my CV
@soulie wrote:
let down somone gently
we are not a couple really, just been really good friends, she wants to see more of me, but i don’t want to lead her on, as i don’t feel anything for her that way
..do i just ignore her..
what ever you do, don’t do that!!! it only makes things worse :?
you should atleast trying to tell her how you feel…told her several times, i feel guilty when she crys :(
Are you genuinely asking for advice? If so try talking to her first, she obviously thinks you’re more than just friends, just tell her you are happy having her as a friend, and although you care about her you dont see her as anything more than a friend.
If that fails and she doesn’t get the nice approach u might have to be a bit mean, I’ve been in that situation before and found talking about another other person I like and fancy to the “friend” works, it will hurt her but she should get that u dont want a relationship with her!
yeah, real life story, i have complicated things slightly though :oops: but still, i just wanna be friends, i am scared she might think i was just using her now, which i was’nt doing.. its complicated, no one would beleive me anyway
i just want advice on how not to upset somone but do the best for me, as to be honest, i don’t want a relationship with anyone, its not just her
if that makes sense
done it :)
she said she is happy being friends, but she does’nt know when she will see me again
whats that mean?
so confusing, i am gonna stay single forever
not that i have much choice about that anyway :D
It probably means shes a bit upset and needs a bit of time to herself, I’m sure she’ll come around eventually, just give her time
i got lots of time to give :)
gonna go to the gym now.. glad i got that sorted, weight lifted in a way
i did’nt send her a funny text
I think what rubyred meant was dont send her texts for a few days, joke ones etc and act like ur best mates again, she needs time to herself to come to terms with things and will no doubt be in touch with you when shes ready
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