With my first serious relationship, it wasn’t physical, i ran from the fecker when i first seen him…lol I dunno i guess it was because he was a bad guy, and i was going through the rebelious teenager stage, 4 years and a son down the line and i realised the error of my ways and got the heck out of there.
A couple of low self esteem, take whoever comes along first relationships which lasted a cpl months each time.
The one i am in now though, couldn’t be anymore perfect for me, we talk loads, we laugh loads, we respect each others individuality and need for space sometimes. We don’t feel scared to voice any problem that we may have with each other at any given time and have no secrets. I couldn’t ask for anymore.
So taking all that into account, i guess for me the perfect partner would be the one i described lastly, the one i can share the person i am with, without feeling the need to hide the bad parts.