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    So I thought it would be fun to start a thread about what girls like with regards to chaps. It’s by no means exhaustive, only intended a starting point and I’ll add more as I can think of them . Feel free to concur, disagree or add your own points.

    Girls like guys who

    1. can do things with his hands.
    2. can tell a good naughty joke without making her feel cheap or dirty
    3. wears good shoes.
    4. can open a door for her without making a big show and dance about it
    5. knows his limitations and isn’t afraid to confront them or try to conquer them
    6. knows how to placate a crying baby
    7. doesn’t say to the shop assistant: ‘she’s about your size and probably likes what
    you’d choose. (He should know your size and your taste.)
    8. Doesn’t try to order for you in a restaurant
    9. Is still able to surprise her
    10. Feels very special because, despite his limitations, you still think he’s rather great.

    I’m struggling with thinking of one for men, as i seem to be able to sum it up in the following:

    Guys like girls who can feed them, pat them on their backs to make sure they burp and occasionally let them watch the footie.

    So it would be great if someone could start that thread.

    #521059

    but I don’t like footie..hate it in fact

    and that is bad news for me on the girl likes –

    coz you can rule me out on #1-3, 9-10..

    5/5 ok??

    I once had a g/f who strongly objected because I was reading a book; this meant I wasn’t paying attention to her. I immediately thought uh-oh! Not good news for a long-term relationship…

    #521060

    Mr Trawler. Girls like guys who …

    Never fail to make them smile.

    :wink:

    Oh and sceptical guy … I like football, but I like books better.

    #521061

    I n2think my reply is on a similar vein to the ops thread
    what happened was this, a few years back I was getting ready to go to the dentists and that stupid this morning programme was on,which I never watch or any other shows of that ilk
    but I was killing time and they were doing a survey
    the topic was
    what do women find most attractive about men
    so being the nosy cosy I am I had to stay and wait for the answer
    you know what those shows are like they had about 3 breaks for the ads
    thus making me late for the dentists
    but I got the answer then legged it to the dentists
    receptionist growls “youre late”
    me,”er yeh what it is I was er yknow like erm
    her”oh shut up waffling somebodys taken your place but you can go next now go and sit down suitably admonished I started idly flicking thru those boring mags
    and lo and behold
    there was a survey in a mag,yup you’ve guessed it
    what do women find,,you know the rest
    im thinking ooh wonder if its the same answer what was on the telly
    and yes it was,the strange thing is the answer on both surveys it wasn’t a close run thing or neck and neck,this answer won by a landslide both times
    anybody know what it was?
    tell me,there maybe a prize.

    #521062

    I been thinking and thinking and thinking..

    and suddenly realise that I didn’t always do #6 terribly well…

    oh dear 4/10, starting to look bad…

    and # 5, I’m not as hot as my vanity led me to think…

    oh dear

    #521063

    1. can do things with his hands.

    Depending on where those hands are and what they’re ‘doing’

    2. can tell a good naughty joke without making her feel cheap or dirty

    And can laugh when a filthier one is told in return

    3. wears good shoes.

    Provided those shoes do not have heels.

    4. can open a door for her without making a big show and dance about it

    Provided it is not the door in a moving vehicle

    5. knows his limitations and isn’t afraid to confront them or try to conquer them

    Or have them expressly pointed out

    6. knows how to placate a crying baby

    I couldn’t give a monkeys. If there’s a crying baby in the vicinity, I’m off to the pub

    7. doesn’t say to the shop assistant: ‘she’s about your size and probably likes what
    you’d choose. (He should know your size and your taste.)

    Unless the shop assistant is a sexy size 12 with exquisitely expensive taste

    8. Doesn’t try to order for you in a restaurant

    Unless it’s to insist on that pudding that you really DO want

    9. Is still able to surprise her

    Mentally, physically and emotionally … but surprise in a good way

    10. Feels very special because, despite his limitations, you still think he’s rather great.

    Of course you feel special … we’re fabulous!

    #521064

    I’ve always been one to notice shoes in men tbh, always liked men who wear good shoes.
    The irony is, that when I first met my now husband, he was wearing espadrilles, and when we consequently went out on a date he wore yet another pair of hideous shoes…..a pair of Adidas trainers with velcro straps :lol:

    I agree with Su, girls love guys who make them smile :)

    #521065

    ignore my post all you like
    but it wasn’t shoes
    altho to be fair shoes did make the top ten

    #521066

    @blossom‘ wrote:

    …..a pair of Adidas trainers with velcro straps :lol:

    That just shouldn’t happen. You’re a better person than me, Blossom. I’d have ripped the above-mentioned fashion faux pas off – thanks to the quick-releasing velcro fastening system – and slapped him around the head to the nearest gent’s outfitters.

    It was obviously love.

    #521067

    Well reminded.

    Girls like guys who …

    Make masculine displays of pique.

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