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Forget the swear words, the anger and the stress. It happens to all of us.
How do you turn things around and see the positivity in situations that look hopeless and beyond your control?smoke some weed. Usualy does the trick. 8)
do the anger bit, maybe cry some, then when your ready give yourself a shake and start ploughing on one day at a time, with the thought in mind… everyone has bad times but we virtually always come out of the other side at some point, focus on reaching that point and not dwelling on the negative and the what was, but on the brighter tomorrows to come.
I always try to look for the positive, in people and in situations, and to focus on those rather than the negative aspects. Of course sometimes there doesn’t seem to be a positive aspect, it all looks bleak, in which case I try to accept that everything happens for a reason and although I can’t see it right now, some time way down the line I’ll look back and say “ohhhh so THAT’S why that had to happen!”
And if it is beyond my control, then all I can do is accept that and sit back and wait to see how things unfold and watch for the opportunity to take some control back again.
“Lord grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
the courage to change the things I can, and
the wisdom to know the difference.”— Saint Francis of Assisi
im cool 8)
@rogue trader wrote:
im cool 8)
Love the cosy, cosy. :D
i dont like it panda its a bit puffy,but thats pixels for you.
Am I missing something is someone angry about something?
The reason I dont swear in my everyday life is so that when I’m really really angry I can use all those forbidden swear words…. sometimes I do it under my breath so people dont hear…. but just saying them makes me feel better :shock: <<<< I know crazy person :D
@rogue trader wrote:
i dont like it panda its a bit puffy,but thats pixels for you.
oiiii….. Shouldn’t that be my avatar? :shock:
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