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I can be very stubborn. At times my stubbornness has cost me.It has caused me to miss the opportunity to accept an apology or miss a different point of view.I was more determined to be right than happy.To find some peace and happiness, sometimes we just need to let it go.
I would prefer to be happy, but compromising on things that are important to me as a person and not being true to myself makes me unhappy. I can adopt a “whatever” attitude (as in “it’s no big deal so let it go” rather than the chav-style whatever) on many things, but now and then there will be something that is too important to me and my sense of identity to let go.
by nature im fair and reasonable
but if i feel wronged
ill dig deeper than you can imagine
and stubborn is my middle name
and yes if i look back
ive fu cked a few things up because of it :?oh gosh.. I would fall out with someone to prove myself right !! This came from being married to a man who was an only child. its only now i can say.. “heck i do not care”.
even now his mother does not let my grandson lose.. I tell her it is so wrong. a simple childs game.. he loses to me ! NOT that im being a sleekit wee fooker. Just teaching him e does NOT win ALL the time !
@thin ice wrote:
by nature im fair and reasonable
but if i feel wronged
ill dig deeper than you can imagine
and stubborn is my middle name
and yes if i look back
ive baffled a few things up because of it :?get ya xx
I used to be stubborn when I was younger just to prove a point….but nowadays I really don’t give a shyte is someone thinks something that isn’t true. I think this place has made me such a way……at the end of the day does it really matter if someone believes somthing that isn’t true? Nope it doesn’t :roll:
@kent f OBE wrote:
I used to be stubborn when I was younger just to prove a point….but nowadays I really don’t give a shyte is someone thinks something that isn’t true. I think this place has made me such a way……at the end of the day does it really matter if someone believes somthing that isn’t true? Nope it doesn’t :roll:
Surely that depends on “Who” the someone is?
If its a partner/Husband/Wife/Sibling etc it would matter
to me,
I value my integrity amongst people I care about.
Or are we just speaking of people in Jc?@A.Groanup wrote:
@kent f OBE wrote:
I used to be stubborn when I was younger just to prove a point….but nowadays I really don’t give a shyte is someone thinks something that isn’t true. I think this place has made me such a way……at the end of the day does it really matter if someone believes somthing that isn’t true? Nope it doesn’t :roll:
Surely that depends on “Who” the someone is?
If its a partner/Husband/Wife/Sibling etc it would matter
to me,
I value my integrity amongst people I care about.
Or are we just speaking of people in Jc?In JC Goanup….this kind of situation has never arisen in real life :lol:
I’m always happy cos I’m always right :wink:
Everyone is wrong at some point so i’d rather be happy.
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