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16 September, 2011 at 9:39 pm #16704
Ive fallen out of love with my husband, but we have two fabulous kids.An affair helps me survive, but reminds me that my marriage is awful.should i stay or go?
16 September, 2011 at 9:46 pm #478201You should either quit the slagging about or get the fck out of the marriage.
16 September, 2011 at 10:27 pm #478202a marriage is for life not till YOU get bored.. if its THAT bad get out the marriage.an affair proves fvck all .
16 September, 2011 at 10:33 pm #478203an affaire can only be justified in your own mind.
Get out, give him the chance to find a woman who will be faithful and yourself some self respect back.
16 September, 2011 at 11:08 pm #478204a certain sadness .. sounds more like a right self pitying c.unt.. sorry but im only honest, ya have came on here seeking love and respect. take yer whining ways elsewhere ..
sake !
17 September, 2011 at 6:09 am #478205Well I thought a certain sadness was male…. no idea why :? I do think that sadness has brought a freshness to the boards… and I love all your new threads :D
Anyway to answer your question, first i try not to judge people so I can only tell you that for me an affair is not possible, its not the fact that you would be doing “it” with another person…. for me it would be living with continuous lies in your everyday life…… not just to your husband but to your friends and family too.
Also what about the person who you have the affair with… its likely he would also be living a lie… nope for me personally it would be too stressful. I do think though its each to his own…. and some couples have good marriages even though one or both have affairs…. thats their business.
17 September, 2011 at 7:17 am #478206@a certain sadness wrote:
Ive fallen out of love with my husband, but we have two fabulous kids.An affair helps me survive, but reminds me that my marriage is awful.should i stay or go?
have a chat with annette
shes an authority on long term affairs
or may be you and your hubby should visit a swingers club
it might just spice things up for you both
also i have a vacancy for a girl on a thursday if your not to far away :wink:17 September, 2011 at 8:20 am #478207Dear Agony Aunt.
My boobs are massive.
Not as big as the boobs in the answers above but still pretty big.Should I be grateful that I’m not as stupid as some nor as quick to judge ?
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17 September, 2011 at 8:22 am #478208I thought sadness was a man too…
I am no authority on giving advice, but if you want an opinion….you seem down, sad, even the nick you have chosen says it all….pick yourself up….look at things in a positive way and smile ….people grow apart but that doesn’t mean you can’t be close again after a glich..x
17 September, 2011 at 8:58 am #478209Dear Agony Aunt,
Am I the only person who didn’t take the opening post seriously?
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