sorry anc but you seem to know a lot in a non flappant way.. I think you need your own thread.
out the blue i get a young man asking to befriend me,, i see the family resemblance between the boys and my own son. My cousins kids.. loads o pic but none of my cousin!,, she was a photographer to trade, so might have taken the pics.. but they were out of focus numbers.. and NOT at all like a professioal RAF dudette..
she is not on the pics.. im scared to ask..
do you think i should be laid back and say ,, “HEY wheres yer Mum” or let it go,,