Boards Index › Chat rooms – the forum communities › Chat forum three boards › PARENTS WITH GAY KIDS ON DRUGS
-
AuthorPosts
-
26 July, 2011 at 6:16 pm #16557
This is re; the amy winehouse thing
so how would you feel if say,you got a lad random name lets say james i dunno?
and he was a hairdresser,lived with his bf
took drugs would you still love him?
or you could be a mum your daughters a lez?
what do you do?
i always turn to thin to these questions
he knows evrything
whats your take thin,im not saying you know
but it would confuse me?26 July, 2011 at 6:38 pm #474642I don’t have children so I can only speak hypothetically but I would like to think that as long as they were happy and contented then their sexuality wouldn’t matter. However if they were on drugs – regardless of their sexuality – I would be disappointed and would do my best to help them kick the habit. Having said that, I know from real life experience that addicts can only be helped when they are ready so I would hope to be as supportive as I could until they were ready.
Amy Winehouse is a prime example, all the help was there, she only had to be ready to reach out and take it. You can force an addict into rehab as often as you want but until they are ready to kick the habit you won’t succeed. Whatever Amy’s reasons for abusing drink and drugs, I always got the impression that she was happy and didn’t see it as a problem, in fact I think she said in a magazine article a couple of months back that “if I die now I will die a happy woman”.
26 July, 2011 at 6:39 pm #474643Mrs T, you deleted your response :(
26 July, 2011 at 6:46 pm #474644Personal response for this one…. I put my brother through rehab, four times, and still he died with a hot needle in his arm, on a major gutter street, its not about what you do for anyone, how you treat it or what comes next. Its only about what caused that person to pick up that needle in the first place, and if you think differently then your a fooking idiot.
26 July, 2011 at 6:47 pm #474645jen she got buried today,lets show some respect eh plz.
26 July, 2011 at 6:50 pm #474646Where did I not show respect? :?
26 July, 2011 at 6:54 pm #474647best/cosy…… mate, your kids are your kids…. you love and support them any way you can and could. You make exceptions, you make rules, you make judgements you never thought you would break. You take all those things, that you thought made you a “man” and you re assess, them because, that is what life does to you….. Not the resonse you want from the person you aimed this at, but its mine, bloke.
26 July, 2011 at 7:55 pm #474648@andymcnabb wrote:
Personal response for this one…. I put my brother through rehab, four times, and still he died with a hot needle in his arm, on a major gutter street, its not about what you do for anyone, how you treat it or what comes next. Its only about what caused that person to pick up that needle in the first place, and if you think differently then your a fooking idiot.
Im very sorry to hear about your brother..very sad..but again with the insults!!
26 July, 2011 at 8:03 pm #474649That comment was between myself and best/cosy and if you seriously think that was an insult, you need to get out more. Enough said, Perhaps you need to read, the proceding posts, to where you think, your input is required, because you always seem to be a little behind.
26 July, 2011 at 8:09 pm #474650@andymcnabb wrote:
That comment was between myself and best/cosy and if you seriously think that was an insult, you need to get out more. Enough said, Perhaps you need to read, the proceding posts, to where you think, your input is required, because you always seem to be a little behind.
-
AuthorPosts
Get involved in this discussion! Log in or register now to have your say!