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cant imagine what the poor son is going through
He must be devasted, what a tragedy
Poor guy must be reeling, I hope he’s been given compassionate leave and time to grieve and come terms with it all.
Very sad yes, rather selfish of them though leaving their only son that way, becuase they were worried about him being killed in afghan instead they have left him with a living hell and though he isnt responsible you can bet he feels it. :(
Such a sad story all round
(f)politics she was suffering with mental illness it makes little issues seem huge so i dont think it was selfish i think she was ill and temporarily imbalanced. she deserves compassion not condemnation. her husband was grief stricken and couldnt live without her. his suicide note shows he knew it would hurt his son but i guess he was also temporarily imbalanced by his grief and couldnt think straight. the sad thing is that no one was there for them to see it coming. when my father died suddenly my mothers sisters didnt leave her alone for two months until she was back to herself again. i guess no one thought the father needed that.
my heart goes out to all of them there is no one really at fault here just a tragic story.
Amber .. i’ve written and deleted a screed in replying to what u said but changed my mind, we have all lived through different things and have different views, but suffice to say i wasnt condemning them i agree its sad and tragic, but there is another side, and thats a living hell, they chose to take that option and leave that pain, and the father knew that by his left note, even if her “anxiety” clouded her judgement, i just pray to god their son can get through this,as often happens suicide ruins more than just the one life, and i hope he gets through it as best as possible.
I hope that he understands why they did it, they did it because they loved him, doesn`t make it right, or easier to accept, but maybe if we can understand why, it helps us greive, and forgive.
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