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not somthing we talk about that often, but having experianced it this year, it can bring a family together, or even further apart
have you had an experiance in life, where somone in the family has died and has caused an argument within the family .. or has it done the opps, and brought the family together?
lol:) I thought the thread was about deaf people, think you were meant to spell it Death:) altough it’s not funny…really, you see mate we can make even the most morbid topics into fun…now whose for a wake gatecrahing.
When my Step-dad died(both of them…and NO my mum isn’t Rita fairclough out of Coronation St b4 you all ask) split the family up, we all went our different ways, hence I have no contact with my family now. It was a tough time for all of us, I was only a kid and blah blah blah, anyway we all dealt with it our own way rather than talking about it, was quite a rollarcoaster ride my teenage years let me tell you, no wonder I have no hair….and as if I hadn’t been through enough….in me 20’s I came face to face with Ginger pubes.ffs…is there no end to this torture.
yes, and its somthing you don’t talk about much now, i don’t like to ask, but you know if you ever wanna talk about it
but we say this.. we go to the pub, to talk about our sh!t lifes, but we just end up having a laugh instead, and forget why we went out for a drink
i was just thinking about my uncle this morning, and how the family got together, at first it was nice, but now they are arguing and fighting again, its getting my mum down, she spends most of her time at the caravan now of my uncles, trying to make it nice to be sold, and she is upset that no one else seems to me having an intrest in what shes done, but she does’nt understand people have different ways of dealing with things, my aunties don’t find it comfortable at the moment going to where he used to live
its understandable, i also know when my grandma died, people got upset, that she left some things to one daughter, but somthing else to another
its a funny family, and i was just thinking, is it just mine are like this? being italian and all
We do have a laugh when we go out don’t we? we should go out more, trouble is i’m always skint……..Lottery tomorrow though eh..open our pool hall and poker room upstairs :lol:
The nicest thing about wining the lottery would be, just no more mither about having enough for bills and such.
when my mum died my family drifted apart as if she was the only thing holding us together :(
mind you its been better not seeing some of them anyway :wink:
Tbh, I haven’t had much experience of death – probably why it was so hard for me to cope with losing my little girl, that’s the only one.
But it did seem to make everyone bond together a bit more. :)
Fingers crossed it will be a long time before I attend my second family funeral X
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We do have a laugh when we go out don’t we? we should go out more, trouble is i’m always skint……..Lottery tomorrow though eh..open our pool hall and poker room upstairs :lol:
The nicest thing about wining the lottery would be, just no more mither about having enough for bills and such.
thursday nights are good.. student night ;)
That is one very gorgeous baby squeezy xxxx
My mum’s brothers and sisters had a few disagreements some yrs ago, and decided they’d get together to try and sort it out……they met at my mum’s house…….some awful things were said and that nite one of my uncles went home, had a heart attack and died……it was a great shock, the rest of the siblings blamed each other for his death and as a result they all went their seperate ways……I feel so sad for my mum as it was never anything to do with her, and she has always felt so guilty as it all happened in her house……you can never take back nasty things that are said, and it’s so sad as they were all so close when they were young……they all had a hard life growing up as their father, my grandfather, was black, so they had to stick together living in a small town…..they walk past each other on the street now……it’s heartbreaking.
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