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Do you have any regrets in this life?
I for one regret eating the cheese and onion toastie I just had as its repeating on me badly…
Yes, I do have some regrets… but I don’t play the “what if” game any more.
Lots and too many to list……. and most of them make me sad so i’ll keep them to myself.
Only thing i will say is the things we do in life make us the people we are today so I too try not to say “what if” it kind of hurts too much
yes but i would rather use the word “mistake” seems less painful
@kent f OBE wrote:
yes but i would rather use the word “mistake” seems less painful
How about learning opportunities?
is that just another way of saying feck ups
@Velvet 1 wrote:
is that just another way of saying feck ups
Yup but sounds more optimistic…I’m still in touch with my free child! :lol:
There are things that I wish I had done differently, but I don’t regret a thing…for every bad thing that has happened to me, something good has come out of it that I wouldn’t have experienced otherwise.
And as Velvet has already said, everything that has happened to me has made me the person I am today…and I kinda like me! :D
Although…maybe….I kinda regret that jar of nutella that’s now only a quarter full… :lol:
@jen_jen wrote:
@Velvet 1 wrote:
is that just another way of saying feck ups
Yup but sounds more optimistic…I’m still in touch with my free child! :lol:
free kids hmmm where do you get them from…. not that i want another
and i’m an eternal pessimist so anything good that happens is always a bonus
@Velvet 1 wrote:
free kids hmmm where do you get them from…. not that i want another
and i’m an eternal pessimist so anything good that happens is always a bonus
See here https://www.justchat.co.uk/boards/viewtopic.php?t=22340!
I thought I was an optimistic realist (plan for the worst, hope for the best) but having read this article I think I might actually have a free child ego which means I’m an assertive optimist :lol:
Quote from the article:
“The positive aspects of the FC ego state involve controlling negative emotion and are related to the ability to look on the bright side and do things in one’s own style, while the negative aspects are not caring about disease and giving in to temptation because of optimism, as well as instinctive and impulsive behaviours.”Let’s not get into impulsive behaviours though…. :lol:
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