The Realities Of Just Chat.

I’ve been gone,3 years,back 3 days. The thing is many will always come and go and many will stay for good. And while I’m really happy to catch up with some I really missed ,I’m stunned at the fact nothing has changed. Format maybe but it’s the same rows the same debates the same tactics and awfully the same conduct unbecoming. Girls, there are some brilliant guys yes,I’m friends with some who are amazing people and no prude but fact is the guys who want to see your boobs on cam? Yeah they have no intent on being with you ever-A guy sees you do that he just thinks you’re easy and have done it before or that other guys have seen it,you’re not being brought home to his mum’s house. In the rooms you’re dealing with people who all have self confidence issues about something on some level. Some you can see,some are masked by over confidence that’s fake and others that are just abusing because they want you to feel just as bad as they do. Don’t follow,lead. You have morals stick to them. Don’t rage because you’re ignored,work out or ask why because it’s not them it’s you. You’re doing something people don’t like then compensate by being an ass which makes you hate them more and then dislike you even more. Try. You can be a broken person but be a good one too. Enough with the bs,the fake you,the clones and story telling,the sucking up,the lies,the stirring. Life can be crap,why spend the time you have making it worse for yourself? Have a laugh,that’s what these rooms are for. It’s not bullsh*it artist class. If you’re new, chat,watch the room to understand it a bit better, remember all bad behaviour is amplified online so be aware. If you’re putting up with alot,speak to someone about it. Stuff said about you only matters if it’s true, if it’s rubbish ignore it and move along. It can be fun here,some people I know now outside of this room and they are amazing people,but it also has its jerks as by now you know and they aren’t worth one second of your time. Have fun,laugh,love, And just be you.