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2 August, 2017 at 8:46 pm #1063782
It’s good to get to the bottom of things. Clear the air to speak but then move forward with a better under standing. Just know when its sorted and move on. I may be a lot of things but i’ll always stand up to bullies. I don’t believe in swearing at people, insulting them, belittling them, talking down to them, but some times one has to speak ones mind in retaliation. Just learn whats important from situations not scoring points.
It’s actually a shame when people don’t get on but that’s life. But ill be a friend not a door mat or a punchbag. Peace to every one. i’m only here to chat and make friends.
If some one despises you …in my opinion they must really despise them selves more.
And its a shame like i said much earlier that many or some feel they have a right in public to just publicly denounce people in that sort of way. Who’s any one to treat others like that?
Human communication is an art and a skill which no one can ever say they have mastered.
Who are we all at the end of the day? Are we all so important we have the right to decide who we despise or not? I don’t think so.
You all have a great Wednesday and be your selves. Life’s too short to spend trying to be moulded into any one elses opinion of who or what you should be.
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2 August, 2017 at 9:04 pm #1063785Can someone please be kind enough to translate what misterq and Linda type on these boards and why they type it on this sort of thread, because I have not got the foggiest.
Thanks in advance.
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2 August, 2017 at 9:41 pm #1063797Shame you never asked a long time ago GE like many others. It’s no problem. Ill explain being misterq in question. Strange the question wasn’t directed to me personally. Bit weird in it’s self. LOL But any way, if my ‘threads’ are in the wrong place or not right…fair enough. Ill stop them. I’m quite reasonable. I’m sure if it was a major problem then the proper authorities would have said some thing…then every one knows where they stand.
What is a thread any way? I’m a chatter and a writer so i did both. Perhaps if people spoke to people on here more civily then not only would it be better communicated but a more positive place all round.
Not really about threads …my way doesn’t really fit in here and some make it obvious they don’t like you.
A lot don’t talk to you or with you…they just talk at you. I was just being my self. So was Linda. This sites got stuck in its ways far too much with certain people trying to force their ‘ authority’ on it. you get it every where. To be honest though…i prefer all my threads than the usual…lets slag off guides thread or the post a video but don’t make any comments because we don’t like it threads.
Think you have to separate the main rules of the site from all the niggly bitchy ones that a lot of people like to enforce on it and the way you all talk to each other.
Its my last post and i wish the boards to thrive well. You can use the information i put here to make the site better or you can just slag it off. The choice is yours.
Thing is about the bible as brought out earlier in a quiz……the whole theme through out the bible spreads the message of humility. Probably the greatest thing lacking in the world and society in general.
Some thing to ponder over.
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2 August, 2017 at 10:07 pm #1063801Ill explain being misterq in question.
You’re doing it again. Talking in riddles. Talking in 3rd person mode. I honestly have absolutely no idea what you are talking about (in general). Or why you are so upset. Of course it could just be me. I have no idea why you assume you can alter the behavior of other adults, that doesn’t meet your own high standards, by lecturing them on the boards.
Some thing to ponder over.
I also have no idea why you assume adults will ponder over anything typed, or not, on these boards, in the context of your post which appears to be more of a pious lecture than sound advice. Sorry.
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3 August, 2017 at 9:19 am #1063828Its my last post and i wish the boards to thrive well.
I’m sorry if that’s really the case, mr q.
You brought a much needed sense of goodwill to the boards. There’s always going to be put-downs, innuendos and lies, but these boards were dominated by them. You changed that for the better by refusing to respond to anger or taunting, and persisted despite everything.
I just hope that the good will doesn’t disappear with you. I fear it may.
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3 August, 2017 at 10:20 am #1063834to quote kws mr q please don’t go….. I think your posts are sound your not bothering anyone if I don’t see you here see you on the kennet avon canal path to London got to try to do bath to London before summers out
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3 August, 2017 at 12:27 pm #1063847Sorry you feel that way Misterq, I didn’t witness anyone abuse insult or call you out. Apart from me when I joked and said you were in the dog house and typed (sits in the corner and leers at misterq) but that was justified due to the random grotty email I got from you. I would never Mizzy bash you in public or by any other means as you seem a kind sensitive fellow. Chat can be addictive and quite hurtful if you take it seriously and let words on a screen get to you. I hope you don’t leave – I rather like you. You are funny during quiz night, you are witty clever intelligent and if you could just ignore nasty remarks you would enjoy your time in just chat so much better. I used to care and get all hurt and have a few wines and get stroppy, i would also be dramatic, throw my toys out, flounce off and rant like an insane banshee woman, but now a days I just sit and giggle my chubby bum off. In the end it goes whoosh over your head. It just takes us sensitive types a bit longer to become numb to it. No one really knows us here, they see what we portray, and they see whatever they want, you will be misunderstood, underestimated, lied about, abused, insulted and goaded by numpties. It is all just pantomime.
I am not sure I will be at the quiz tonight, if I am I h0pe to see you in there.
I will be trying to encourage lovely people like us to get room 1 busy again when I get back from a week in London. Come and see me in room one when you can. Just chat can be so much of a laugh with the right people.
Let the haters stay in the other rooms :)
Luv ya xxxxxxxxx
Your friend, Sarah xx
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4 August, 2017 at 3:18 pm #1063947Thank you Sceptical Guy for your email and comment and miz for your expression. I’ve had to sort a few things out the last few days which has taken a lot of my energy but that’s my latest challenge.To be honest, on my own post……i really don’t care what GE thinks. Never really spoken to him/her and while the comments were valid…..the comment seemed to me to be looking for and inviting trouble.
Any way, i will say this……i would like to apologize to orson as i feel bad for annoying him. It doesn’t matter who’s wrong or right just that were all friends here. People like winning battles…that’s fine….to an extent but make sure when you’ve won loads of battles , you haven’t still lost the war.
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5 August, 2017 at 11:41 am #1064085I had absolutely no idea what you were blabbing on about initially and I still have no idea what you are blabbing on about now, nor why you have mentioned me again in another one of your passive aggressive threads, sorry. However, mix words yours up and makes it like appear totally if different person. Sure I will am improve skills soon.
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6 August, 2017 at 1:42 pm #1064243Perhaps you ought to ponder more on what is said then GE?
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